Sure! Let me think about it...
Personally as an ILE-Ti I feel more like a mishmash of different types rather than the usual ILE archetype of "mad scientist/crazy messy philosopher/debater". Although I do have distinctly ILE attitudes, especially when I'm in a good mood for socializing, my attitude with people I don't know well, or my attitude when I'm alone can be quite different. I think I give LSI or Beta vibes normally. To the point where my apparent rigidity makes Fe creatives dislike me a bit, on the other hand it charms Fe leads, especially EIE. If I had to guess, it's my Se-role being used a "shield" to protect my ego or something. Essentially only Si leads, and to a lesser degree other Alphas can make me lower my guard so to speak, so that I feel like using Ne naturally. This being said, if I feel common ground with someone I will naturally let out Ne.
Fe to me is... I guess something that allows me to read people's thoughts a bit better. People are a mystery to me, and it's just a hundred times easier to understand people when I see emotions on people's face. Especially the mouth (I hate the pandemic cause wearing masks makes reading faces a lot harder
). So with Fi people I feel naturally wary, as they aren't predisposed to showing what they feel so blatantly as Fe types. I sorta assume that if people don't show positive emotions around me then they probably don't like me. Coupled with the Fi tendency of imposing moral judgement on everyone, I feel ill at ease around Fi egos especially lol.
Fe, being my hidden agenda ("to be liked/loved"), shows as attention-seeking/reaction-seeking, not blatantly but rather subtle in the form of making jokes, quips, etc. When someone regularly gives me a response (especially laughter) then I assume they value Fe and share some of my sense of humour.
I think the biggest difference between Ne subtypes and Ti subtypes regarding what they "seek" is that Ne subs want a constant barrage of Si, with some Fe in there. I can't speak for other ILE-Ti but in my case I prefer frequent Fe with the occasional Si in the background. For some reason I'm not immediately thankful when someone shows Si/does a Si favour for me. In my head I think "well, I could've done it myself but thanks anyways!". But those Si gestures help immensely to drop my guard and let loose my Ne. I also drop my Se tough guy act when I feel that it puts people off.
So now you're thinking, how come you seek Fe much more than Si? Doesn't that mean you're LII?
The reasons I'm most likely not LII are:
-Ne and Se too strong
-Ti not as pervasive (AKA, I don't use my Ti to solve every problem I come across, I solve problems more flexibly using Ne first)
-MOST IMPORTANT: Energy levels. My temperament is very distinctly EP. Despite the apparent rigidity, or "toughness" on the surface that reminds of IJ types, my energy levels fluctuate A LOT and without any apparent reason. I have generally high energy levels that drop after a while and recharge quickly (cyclical throughout the day).
-I have a tendency to "drag people along" (EP-IP dynamic) rather than "being dragged along" (IJ-EJ dynamic)
-I feel comfortable leading a "vagrant" sort of lifestyle, trying out my luck at different places and different activities for a living (contrast with IJ/LII need for stability)
So those are my thoughts/experience as (probably) an ILE-Ti. I'm thinking my subtype is N, rather than H, because of strong role. But I'm not really sure.
My advice if you want to meet ILE-Ti: ask lots of questions about what they like to do, and what they want to do in their life. Don't pay too much attention to attitude, but figure out their lifestyle, energy levels, etc. If there's something that the ILE-Ti I met had in common, it's a predisposition to adventure and risk that is not as common as in LII and even ILE-Ne. One ILE-Ti I met was running a small business as a software dev, and seemed SLE or LIE at a glance.