Is this how Fi PoLR looks like?

[Hermit Soul]

My job involves dealing with kids, and in my job I'll sometimes encounter kids who love crying a lot.
And I have an SLE coworker who would often poke fun at those kids behind their back, but today he went a step further and he went into aggressive/harsh mode and yell at those kids to stop crying. This really surprised me, because my SLE coworker is normally very laidback and easygoing, but he actually lost his temper at the kid. He yelled really loudly at the kid, until the kid eventually got scared of his temper and stopped crying.

Is this how Fi PoLR look like? Do Fi PoLR tend to feel very uncomfortable when there are people around them crying non-stop?

[Tallmo]

My job involves dealing with kids, and in my job I'll sometimes encounter kids who love crying a lot.
And I have an SLE coworker who would often poke fun at those kids behind their back, but today he went a step further and he went into aggressive/harsh mode and yell at those kids to stop crying. This really surprised me, because my SLE coworker is normally very laidback and easygoing, but he actually lost his temper at the kid. He yelled really loudly at the kid, until the kid eventually got scared of his temper and stopped crying.

Is this how Fi PoLR look like? Do Fi PoLR tend to feel very uncomfortable when there are people around them crying non-stop?

Fi PoLR is more like constant "itching" on how to relate, right and wrong etc. They can't totally ignore it but they can't deal with it either.

They need a dual who takes care of these things in a concrete way without too much talking.

[Aylen]

Sounds like immaturity and/or lack of patience. My aunt was ESI and she would yell at us for crying. Told us to stop or she would give us something to really cry about. I was scared of her when I was really young but later wasn't. In her it was a lack of patience. My LSI mom also yelled at us and in her it was also a lack of patience but after she had the younger kids she became more patient but still yelled at them. Now she is like totally patient with kids.

[consentingadult]

No, it is not PoLR Fi. Such uncontrolled behavior, if Socionics related, would often point towards using the role function.

Fi-PoLR often is the result of using Fe-Mobilizing: in the process of using the mobilizing function, aspects related to the PoLR are violated. It looks like this:

ETA: too bad, my video was recognized of copyright violation :-(

[lavos]

That sounds more like uncontrolled Fe HA or role, with some -Se(aggression) mixed in. So SLE or LSE-Te is a good bet for the person.

[niffer]

I used to work in childcare. I can't imagine a place that would hire a person like who you're describing lol. I would try to inform someone about his behaviour if I were you.

[Bertrand]

this sounds like arnold in kindergarden cop

[ashlesha]

Sounds like immaturity and/or lack of patience. My aunt was ESI and she would yell at us for crying. Told us to stop or she would give us something to really cry about. I was scared of her when I was really young but later wasn't. In her it was a lack of patience. My LSI mom also yelled at us and in her it was also a lack of patience but after she had the younger kids she became more patient but still yelled at them. Now she is like totally patient with kids.

Lol it was my ESI aunt who taught me the concept of crying without making noises when I was a kid. She said I could cry all I want without bothering everybody else. Haha. She was rubbing lard on my wound at the time. I hated her but it was good 2 know.

[Aylen]

Lol it was my ESI aunt who taught me the concept of crying without making noises when I was a kid. She said I could cry all I want without bothering everybody else. Haha. She was rubbing lard on my wound at the time. I hated her but it was good 2 know.

I learned something similar from mine. I think she toughened me up a bit which prepared me for the world. I hated her then but I am kind of grateful for her in many ways now.

[The Reality Denialist]

Problems:
Inability to relate to people's inner feelings, using improper affect, treating people too equally...

[Aylen]

Problems:
Inability to relate to people's inner feelings, using improper affect, treating people too equally...

Of all those the bold is the only one that bugs me since in closer relationships I would never want to be treated equally. The rest are easily dealt with.

[The Reality Denialist]

Of all those the bold is the only one that bugs me since in closer relationships I would never want to be treated equally. The rest are easily dealt with.

Possibly swings to other end (in case of SLE).

I'm always speaking in general terms. Well that might look like not taking sides while still wanting to defend something that goes against something (well, equality). I don't really want to take sides, ever unless it breaks something that is equal or something like that.

[Exodus]

Just Se