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    Oh, didn't see N9's list until now. Nice, 3 EIEs, me included, and the rest are LSIs.
    Pick your poison dual!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Number 9 large View Post
    ALPHA
    Muddy: LII 5w6 sp/sx
    Troll nr 007 LII 5w6 so/sp
    Number 9 large: ILE 7w6 sx/sp
    Olimpia: SEI 9w8 sx/sp
    Wasp: ESE 2w3 sx/sp
    Pano Lou: ESE 2w3 so/sx
    Sol: LII 5w6 sp/so
    Aster: SEI 9w8 sx/so
    Hitta: ILE 7w6 so/sx
    Capitalist Pig: ILE 7w6 so/sx
    Idontgiveaf: ESE 2w3 so/sp
    WinnieW: LII 5w6 sx/so

    Beta:
    Chae: EIE 2w1 sx/so
    SINGU: LSI 6w5 so/sp
    Wyrd: LSI 6w5 sp/so
    Thehotelambush: LSI 6w7 so/sp
    Raver: LSI 6w5 sp/so
    Feathers: EIE 2w1 so/sx
    Spermatozoa: EIE 2w1 sx/so

    Gamma:
    Bertrand: SEE 3w4 so/sp
    Golden: ESI 4w3 so/sx
    Adam Strange: LIE 8w7 sx/so
    Cosmic Teapot: ILI 1w2 sp/so
    BandD: SEE 3w4 sx/sp
    Hag: ESI 4w3 sx/sp
    Hamada: SEE 3w4 so/sx
    Bionic midget: SEE 3w4 so/sp
    FDG: SEE 3w4 sp/so
    Reyne: SEE 3w4 sp/so
    Niffer: ESI 4w3 sx/so
    Remiel: ESI 4w3 sp/sx

    Delta:
    Aylen: EII 4w5 so/sx
    Squark: SLI 1w9 sp/so
    Viktor: LSE 8w9 sp/sx
    Director Abbie: IEE 3w2 so/sx
    BOT (Syrup): IEE 3w2 sp/sx
    Ashlesha: LSE 8w9 sp/sx
    BnD NOT IEI?! Well, that's new.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kill4Me View Post
    New Addition: Vers

    I have not seen fit to revise any typings. I am sure on all of these. The list just keeps getting bigger and bigger. New Additions are on the way.

    ILE-Ti: Myst, Transkar, LuchoisLurking, JWC3, MadCity, Troll NR 007, Falsehope
    ILE-Ne: Geneiouws, Lagerdemon, Cubazoan, Nickelslick, Hitta

    ESE-Fi: Chipsnunderwear, Suz, Inumbra, Subteigh, Kalinoche, FlutteringShyx, Mrrrmaid
    ESE-Si: Mu4, Wacey, Xerx, Esaman, KrigtheViking, Hacim, Little Timmy

    LII-Ti: N0ki/Zap, Muddy, Reactance, User Name, Bertrand
    LII-Ne: Kimuchi/kimu, Zero,
    Vers

    SEI-Si: johannesbloem, chriscorey, the whole English
    SEI-Fe: BnD, crazedrat, dinky, Neokortex, Pallas Athena

    SLE-Se: herzy, mercutio, ananke, idontgiveaf
    SLE-Ti: agee, kill4me

    LSI-Se: Spider, Missbabydoll, Pole, Aramas
    LSI-Ti: Rocky

    IEI-Fe: Allie, Pink, SisofNight, Cassandra, Fay, Summer Princess
    IEI-Ni: Starfall/Fox, Glam, Elina, Strrrng, Velvet, Penny Dreadful

    EIE-Fe: Cuivienen
    EIE-Ni: Gilly, Darya, Bain, Sarinana

    SEE-Se: Woofwoofl, Handjob, Number9Large
    SEE-Fi: Lucas, Aquagraph, Chae, Vogue Paris, Totalize, Schwiftyrickity

    LIE-Ni: Ineffable, Moonraker, Avebury
    LIE-Te: Ashton, FDG, Expat, Invisiblehim, Narc, Anglas

    ESI-Se: DiscoJoe, EJArendee, Jet City Woman, MisterNi, Scarletluxx, Amber/Rosewood, Strangeling
    ESI-Fi: Lungs, Golden, Ouronis, Radio, Suedehead, Galen, Kore/Persephone, Delilah, the Locust, Saiorse

    ILI-Ni: Scapegrace, Korpsey, Krieger, Cpig, InvisibleJim
    ILI-Te: Marie, Mensupermateriam, Aestrivex, Crispy, Soupman

    SLI-Si: Words, Stray, Scarper, LuminousLynx
    SLI-Te: kim, daft punk, directorabbie, pookie, Jessica, may, supremacist

    LSE-Te: Absurd, JimBean
    LSE-Si: William, JackOliverAaron/Echidna1000, BurningIce, Timmy, Smilingeyes, Laurie’s Crusader, Viktor

    IEE-Ne: Elizathomason, UDP, Sapphire, Syrup De Gem, Pinoline, Azbestos, Nanashi
    IEE-Fi: Finale, Airman/airborne, Adam Strange, Prince Andrei, Niffer

    EII-Ne: Aylen, Epheme, Wasp
    EII-Fi: maritsa/beautiful sky, zero, mikemex, IBTL, contra, sol, suintal/silke, tela/arachne, Olimpia, thehotelambush, Yaaroslav
    This could explain why I don't get along with Myst, sol, and niffer.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Number 9 large View Post
    ALPHA
    Muddy: LII 5w6 sp/sx
    Troll nr 007 LII 5w6 so/sp
    Number 9 large: ILE 7w6 sx/sp
    Olimpia: SEI 9w8 sx/sp
    Wasp: ESE 2w3 sx/sp
    Pano Lou: ESE 2w3 so/sx
    Sol: LII 5w6 sp/so
    Aster: SEI 9w8 sx/so
    Hitta: ILE 7w6 so/sx
    Capitalist Pig: ILE 7w6 so/sx
    Idontgiveaf: ESE 2w3 so/sp
    WinnieW: LII 5w6 sx/so

    Beta:
    Chae: EIE 2w1 sx/so
    SINGU: LSI 6w5 so/sp
    Wyrd: LSI 6w5 sp/so
    Thehotelambush: LSI 6w7 so/sp
    Raver: LSI 6w5 sp/so
    Feathers: EIE 2w1 so/sx
    Spermatozoa: EIE 2w1 sx/so

    Gamma:
    Bertrand: SEE 3w4 so/sp
    Golden: ESI 4w3 so/sx
    Adam Strange: LIE 8w7 sx/so
    Cosmic Teapot: ILI 1w2 sp/so
    BandD: SEE 3w4 sx/sp
    Hag: ESI 4w3 sx/sp
    Hamada: SEE 3w4 so/sx
    Bionic midget: SEE 3w4 so/sp
    FDG: SEE 3w4 sp/so
    Reyne: SEE 3w4 sp/so
    Niffer: ESI 4w3 sx/so
    Remiel: ESI 4w3 sp/sx

    Delta:
    Aylen: EII 4w5 so/sx
    Squark: SLI 1w9 sp/so
    Viktor: LSE 8w9 sp/sx
    Director Abbie: IEE 3w2 so/sx
    BOT (Syrup): IEE 3w2 sp/sx
    Ashlesha: LSE 8w9 sp/sx
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    People I think are cool- my quadra

    Everyone else on the forum I don't talk to- opposite quadra

    I think Feathers might be IEI but I dunno.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mio Q View Post
    People I think are cool- my quadra

    Everyone else on the forum I don't talk to- opposite quadra

    I think Feathers might be IEI but I dunno.
    You can also get along well with nearby quadra people

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    Quote Originally Posted by Number 9 large View Post
    You can also get along well with nearby quadra people
    Yeah we don't get along at all you loser. You make me so mad AAAAAAAAAAGH
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    Quote Originally Posted by Pano Lou View Post
    Yeah we don't get along at all you loser. You make me so mad AAAAAAAAAAGH
    Ok m8

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    Its not my fault u got periods

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    Quote Originally Posted by Number 9 large View Post
    You can also get along well with nearby quadra people
    I think it is possible to get along with people of every Quadra. The only mitigating factor is how well you can know them before running into an insurmountable difference. The likelihood of this happening increases with fewer common values and greater Quadral distance.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Adam Strange View Post
    I think it is possible to get along with people of every Quadra. The only mitigating factor is how well you can know them before running into an insurmountable difference. The likelihood of this happening increases with fewer common values and greater Quadral distance.
    True

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    As long as he keeps Solcionics all to himself and people who are receptive towards his method, he could be typing people by the length of their toe nails for all I care

    It's the fact that he is downright shoving his typology method peen down other, unwilling people's throats that's bothering me. And this leads to lowkey and highkey bullying on his part which is, again, rough handling and not nice at all. (Delilah being a prime example of this and apparently his favorite)

    Hey! People might be more receptive to your ideas if you don't treat them as if they're not real outside your computer. Food for thought.
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    Does anyone have any suggestions for my Enneagram type (especially instict stacking) based off my pinterest? I'm questioning my instinctual variant, at the moment.

    ~joining the pinterest board typing craze!!!~

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    Hi there, I don't know anyone here, nor do I know my own type for sure, but I'm sure I would want to crash this thread in the future.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Venus Rose View Post
    I could see SX in there, but I am not sure if its first or second in your stacking...pictures are not always good at representing these things. If you don't mind me asking, why are you questioning your stacking at the moment? Is there another one you feel like might fit you better?
    Thanks!

    Well I'm considering the one in my TIM, sp/sx, sx/so, and sp/so...Sx/sp was always the one that immediately hit home, but like I said I'm questioning it rn. My facial expression looks most like sp/sx visual composites. I enjoy the 'exhibitionism' associated with sx/so, I've just learned to keep it more on the down low so I don't repell so many people, and also, so I don't attract the wrong guys who just want that...and, I read somewhere that sp/so feels driven to critique society, in favor of their own personal motivations, but now I can't find where I read that. At any rate, I relate to that concept.

    I have some more boards that are (possibly) blatantly sx, lol but yeah they're pinned as secret

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    Pinterest board typing? I'll link mine in a little bit.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Feathers View Post
    As long as he keeps Solcionics all to himself and people who are receptive towards his method, he could be typing people by the length of their toe nails for all I care

    It's the fact that he is downright shoving his typology method peen down other, unwilling people's throats that's bothering me. And this leads to lowkey and highkey bullying on his part which is, again, rough handling and not nice at all. (Delilah being a prime example of this and apparently his favorite)

    Hey! People might be more receptive to your ideas if you don't treat them as if they're not real outside your computer. Food for thought.
    Yes, unfortunately Sol has been on my case for some time now. I basically am limited on my forum activity because of his harassment - like any time i notice he starts re-typing of me (laced with many insults) i don't post or post less than I otherwise would.

    I don't find it worthwhile responding to him as i can see from a mile where any interaction with him can go. I just ignore him for the most part.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Delilah View Post
    Yes, unfortunately Sol has been on my case for some time now. I basically am limited on my forum activity because of his harassment - like any time i notice he starts re-typing of me (laced with many insults) i don't post or post less than I otherwise would.

    I don't find it worthwhile responding to him as i can see from a mile where any interaction with him can go. I just ignore him for the most part.
    I hope the moderators are taking note of this - I've experienced the same behavior.
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    edit: sorry, thought bg was a moderator but it appears not?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Xaiviay View Post
    Does anyone have any suggestions for my Enneagram type (especially instict stacking) based off my pinterest? I'm questioning my instinctual variant, at the moment.

    ~joining the pinterest board typing craze!!!~
    Maybe 9?

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    Quote Originally Posted by thehotelambush View Post
    I hope the moderators are taking note of this - I've experienced the same behavior.
    @mu4 @bionic midget

    edit: sorry, thought bg was a moderator but it appears not?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Venus Rose View Post
    My expression also comes across as sp-first, based on my pictures. I don't think that's a very good method to type people by. Video would be somewhat better, but basically you need to get to know the person.
    Yeah it's probably not the best typing method, I just thought it was worth noting. Thanks for your feedback.
    What draws you to the exhibitionism of the sx/so?
    Oh boy,
    Self expression, making others see me the way I feel inside. I feel very closely tied to my sexuality, so I feel restricted when I can't express it. But obviously, I get harassed when I do that. Also, it makes others very uncomfortable, so nowadays I've learned that it's disrespectful to act that way.

    Do you feel like you could be SX-blind?
    Unlikely....but I might not know it if I were, since it's called a 'blind spot' for a reason. Also, the Sx insinct is very powerful by nature, I think, since it has to do with whatever gives you the most intense chemical rush. I'm not sure how it would feel to have it as a blind spot, since it's so powerful? Maybe even as a blind spot, it would be hard to ignore.

    I wanted to hear other's impressions and give them some thought. Once again, thanks for your responses!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Delilah View Post
    Yes, unfortunately Sol has been on my case for some time now. I basically am limited on my forum activity because of his harassment - like any time i notice he starts re-typing of me (laced with many insults) i don't post or post less than I otherwise would.

    I don't find it worthwhile responding to him as i can see from a mile where any interaction with him can go. I just ignore him for the most part.
    Sol is too emotionally invested in your type, which makes him being T type highly unlikely.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Xaiviay View Post
    Yeah it's probably not the best typing method, I just thought it was worth noting. Thanks for your feedback.

    Oh boy,
    Self expression, making others see me the way I feel inside. I feel very closely tied to my sexuality, so I feel restricted when I can't express it. But obviously, I get harassed when I do that. Also, it makes others very uncomfortable, so nowadays I've learned that it's disrespectful to act that way.


    Unlikely....but I might not know it if I were, since it's called a 'blind spot' for a reason. Also, the Sx insinct is very powerful by nature, I think, since it has to do with whatever gives you the most intense chemical rush. I'm not sure how it would feel to have it as a blind spot, since it's so powerful? Maybe even as a blind spot, it would be hard to ignore.

    I wanted to hear other's impressions and give them some thought. Once again, thanks for your responses!
    I think what you said here doesn't sound social last. From what I understand social last as, it feels sort of like you have a sort of blindness to wider community, which makes you make social blunders whether you want to or not. So Sx/Sp being syn-flow would make the mistake and possibly feel guilty / shame about it if they recognise it, whereas Sp/Sx would give less of a fuck. The bit in your spoiler actually made me think so/sx (taking your sexuality --->> expressing it in society in a way that doesn't make others uncomfortable). And I think Sx/So has the same sort of "don't give a fuck" attitude to Sx as Sp/Sx and the difference is in their awareness of its affect on society so probably not that.

    but to counter my own point, maybe that's just Fe making it look like So (as in, you are syn-flow Sx/Sp so don't want to rock the boat too much and have a heightened awareness of the community's reaction because of Fe and thus feel more guilt / anxiety about it than other Sx/Sp).

    I also don't think you are sexual last so Sx/Sp or So/Sx imo.

    I get the harassment thing too - it fucking blows
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    Delilah is definitely Fi valuing

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    Quote Originally Posted by mrrrmaid View Post
    I think what you said here doesn't sound social last. From what I understand social last as, it feels sort of like you have a sort of blindness to wider community, which makes you make social blunders whether you want to or not. So Sx/Sp being syn-flow would make the mistake and possibly feel guilty / shame about it if they recognise it, whereas Sp/Sx would give less of a fuck. The bit in your spoiler actually made me think so/sx (taking your sexuality --->> expressing it in society in a way that doesn't make others uncomfortable). And I think Sx/So has the same sort of "don't give a fuck" attitude to Sx as Sp/Sx and the difference is in their awareness of its affect on society so probably not that.[/spoiler]
    Mrrrmaid <3 Thanks! That could be the case, I might not be social-last, then. But maybe I should explain some things about that...
    Up until about a year ago, I really didn't even see or care that I was making people so uncomfortable with my self-presentation, I didn't see what could be wrong with it. Lots of people harassed me, made fun of me, and even my friends complained...and it did sting, a little bit...but it didn't make me nearly as uncomfortable as censoring my self expression did, so I just kept "flaunting it", until I had my moral epiphany :

    I still want to present that way...but I've stopped for moral and practical reasons. I've realized how negative of an affect it tends to have on others, so I think it's a jerky thing to do if you're aware of that but you still do it anyway - Sort of like not showering for weeks, and then sitting on a crowded subway and stinking up the place, and not caring how anyone else feels about it. lol.

    Also, it really is hard to find a boyfriend who truly loves you for you, if you're shoving sexuality in his face 24/7. Like it's hard for them to even judge, their hormones just take control and they'll think they love you regardless (or they'll just lie, to get it). I want a good relationship. One day when I'm married, I can dress the way I'd really like to, around him at least, and I won't have to restrict myself quite as much.

    But like I mentioned, I do have some discomfort around other people's responses to me...and it is hard to tell if it's Instinctual-based, or just a part of having Fe in the ego! Haha

    Sx/Sp or So/Sx, hmm thank you I'll 'try on' the So/Sx typing for a while and see how it feels...it's possible.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nebula View Post
    Sol is too emotionally invested in your type
    I'm "emotionally invested" in the truth and the typology.
    To type I take into account IR effects, the theory and my experience of watching people of different types.
    It's the main in the situation.

    I relate similarly to others too. For example, Chae got my criticism about claiming as Fi type and then had brains enough to agree with me.
    Also Delilah's issues I notice good due to IR, she provoked by being inadequately rude, meanwhile being weird she claims to be my holy dual (semidual earlier) lol

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    To think me as F type is cute, anyway.
    Develop the basis. It's funny.
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    ^ can the mods pls. take note of the above. I have not addressed this member and have explicitly asked him (months ago) to not address me. Thanks

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    Quote Originally Posted by Xaiviay View Post
    Mrrrmaid <3 Thanks! That could be the case, I might not be social-last, then. But maybe I should explain some things about that...
    Up until about a year ago, I really didn't even see or care that I was making people so uncomfortable with my self-presentation, I didn't see what could be wrong with it. Lots of people harassed me, made fun of me, and even my friends complained...and it did sting, a little bit...but it didn't make me nearly as uncomfortable as censoring my self expression did, so I just kept "flaunting it", until I had my moral epiphany :

    I still want to present that way...but I've stopped for moral and practical reasons. I've realized how negative of an affect it tends to have on others, so I think it's a jerky thing to do if you're aware of that but you still do it anyway - Sort of like not showering for weeks, and then sitting on a crowded subway and stinking up the place, and not caring how anyone else feels about it. lol.

    Also, it really is hard to find a boyfriend who truly loves you for you, if you're shoving sexuality in his face 24/7. Like it's hard for them to even judge, their hormones just take control and they'll think they love you regardless (or they'll just lie, to get it). I want a good relationship. One day when I'm married, I can dress the way I'd really like to, around him at least, and I won't have to restrict myself quite as much.

    But like I mentioned, I do have some discomfort around other people's responses to me...and it is hard to tell if it's Instinctual-based, or just a part of having Fe in the ego! Haha

    Sx/Sp or So/Sx, hmm thank you I'll 'try on' the So/Sx typing for a while and see how it feels...it's possible.
    hahah okay wait this sounds more like Sx/Sp with Fe maybe

    my official vote is not sx last either way
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    Quote Originally Posted by Venus Rose View Post
    I think I may relate to what you are trying to say. Do you mind going into more detail? Only as much as you are comfortable with.
    Okie dokie, I tried not to make it TMI, but it is kinda NSFW:
    I like dressing in overtly sexual clothes, designing them according to my taste in aesthetics, making them, and wearing them. It makes me feel more alive, invigorated, motivated, and happy. I care more about having a good sex life with the right partner, than anything else, it's never far from my mind, so it's most natural to dress in accordance.

    I'd probably really enjoy having sex in front of a crowd, the idea actually feels energizing. Or 'performing' in front of a crowd like a Burlesque dancer or something! Designing the clothes and dance according to my tastes. It'd feel good to know my self expression had a powerful impact on other people...

    I guess maybe I'm overly fixated on sex Aha! Regardless of where Sx is in my instinctual stack...

    Edit: @Venus Rose go ahead and read my last reply to mrrrmaid too, if you want, it has more
    Well, this is how they explain the SX-last: http://www.theenneagramuniverse.com/...stackings.html

    (It's the first one).
    Oh, good descriptions! Well...I really don't relate to that at all... So, I guess sp/so is going out the window, at least.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Venus Rose View Post
    @Xaviay this is just based on superficial impressions, so I may be wrong, but how do you feel about SX in the secondary position (So/Sx)? You seem to approach it in a much more playful and not so neurotic, way. And your concerns about seem to be in the social realm.
    Well thank you! I feel pretty neurotic about it lol, but I don't wanna go into any more detail. You and @mrrrmaid got me considering So/Sx though, thanks I'll think about it for a while

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    Quote Originally Posted by Subteigh View Post
    This forum is really increasing its entropy.
    Perhaps one day it will live.

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    Ok, I just joined Pinterest. Seems really neat. Good way to collect and discover art. Here's mine.
    A true sense-perception certainly exists, but it always looks as though objects were not so much forcing their way into the subject in their own right as that the subject were seeing things quite differently, or saw quite other things than the rest of mankind. As a matter of fact, the subject perceives the same things as everybody else, only, he never stops at the purely objective effect, but concerns himself with the subjective perception released by the objective stimulus.
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    what's my type ?

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    Quote Originally Posted by noaydi View Post
    what's my type ?
    make a video
    this may help you to overcome traumas after wrong typings
    Types examples: video bloggers, actors

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    The example of opposing with Fe type (SEI, most probably) from base Te.

    @Delilah
    > I'm being harassed by Sol. (post)

    You are lieing again. What should be natural for you. And is the most expected among your Fe type which tend to spit on the objective reality.

    I generally and in the last message to you acted in the border of rules as criticized your concrete behavior and opinions. I relate to you in the borders of justice and reason, unlike you who act stupidly and morally inadequately.
    I answered you there by the forum's theme and in the context of the discussion. It's you who started negatively to discuss me outside of the theme there, and on your lie I've replied appropriately.

    It's you who 1st made direct personal insult against me, what was against the forum rules. In this aspect I then relate to you in not worse degree. You did unmotivated the personal harassment against me and then got what you deserved, not more. And now you are whining about what you do yourself to others or more correctly to say - about the lesser, as direct insulting which is common for you and your Fe types is often redundant.

    P.S.
    I saw not a single time when F types dislike logical critique, act morally inadequately, in return get the appropriate and similar style and then whine about this representing themselves as innocent victims. Common F types manipulations + the rejecting to think logically instead of emotional reactions where that would be more correct. Types with different T-F values get this with more probability.
    Types examples: video bloggers, actors

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sol View Post
    The example of opposing with Fe type (SEI, most probably) from base Te.

    @Delilah
    > I'm being harassed by Sol. (post)

    You are lieing again. What should be natural for you. And is the most expected among your Fe type which tend to spit on the objective reality.

    I generally and in the last message to you acted in the border of rules as criticized your concrete behavior and opinions. I relate to you in the borders of justice and reason, unlike you who act stupidly and morally inadequately.
    I answered you there by the forum's theme and in the context of the discussion. It's you who started negatively to discuss me outside of the theme there, and on your lie I've replied appropriately.

    It's you who 1st made direct personal insult against me, what was against the forum rules. In this aspect I then relate to you in not worse degree. You did unmotivated the personal harassment against me and then got what you deserved, not more. And now you are whining about what you do yourself to others or more correctly to say - about the lesser, as direct insulting which is common for you and your Fe types is often redundant.

    P.S.
    I saw not a single time when F types dislike logical critique, act morally inadequately, in return get the appropriate and similar style and then whine about this representing themselves as innocent victims. Common F types manipulations + the rejecting to think logically instead of emotional reactions where that would be more correct. Types with different T-F values get this with more probability.
    Sol, you take your rudeness way too far. Just because someone is a type doesn't mean they don't use all other functions. You should know this. Now settle down and leave Delilah alone. She can type herself however she wants. It's a free world.
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    Through which Sun of Being’s Light is passed,
    Each tinted fragment sparkles with the Sun,
    A thousand colors, but the Light is One.

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    Quote Originally Posted by vesstheastralsilky View Post
    She can type herself however she wants. It's a free world.
    Not if Socionics is supposed to be this super objective thing.

    I think Sol is partly right in that he has the right to speak "objectively" of matters that are supposed to be objective. To not able to discuss it may indeed be censorship. We are objectively discussing the "subjects" that are actual people, which the matter of discussing it being ethical or not is another discussion that's besides the point.

    The problem is, where is the objectivity in this? How are we supposed to decide what is objective or not? How do we escape from the fact that the "researchers" like Sol himself aren't biased by his own psychology, his own emotions, his own expectations, his own biases?

    This problem can be solved if we assume that human beings are capable of rational thought, and therefore we can arrive at objectivity via rational arguments. The only way to know whether something is objective or not, is through rational arguments. We make the best case for deciding when something is objective, and when something is not.

    The entire problem, then, is that the entire argument of what makes something objective or not, is missing. Without rational arguments, they're arbitrary subjective opinions.

    So how do we know when something is objective? That can be only created by rational arguments.

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    stop all this arguing and validate me

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    Quote Originally Posted by Switchblades View Post
    stop all this arguing and validate me
    Your presence in chatbox has seemed perfectly consistent with iei to me.

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