If I say, "they're all a bunch of mamabangers I hate them all, but hey, u not so bad among them all, I do fine with u! <3 <3!" this can be Fi in your twisted idea of what socionics gotta be like, but it's just plainly rude if u say it infront of everyone for everyone to see... Fi? think again.
ps, I'm sure your IEE friend doesn't share such opinions in front of all, as well