my group of friends

[Reyne]

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[Chae]

Should we just guess now?

[Chae]

No need to guess. I'm C. Quadra wise, I would say that I seem to despise strong Fi valuers, while appreciating Fe. That should cut it down to Alpha or Beta. What do you think, Chae?

The other way around rings true. Irony of despising and then associating with what's appreciated more, that IS .

[at sirac son of sirac]

No need to guess. I'm C. Quadra wise, I would say that I seem to despise strong Fi valuers, while appreciating Fe. That should cut it down to Alpha or Beta. What do you think, Chae?

What makes you think that, Reyne?

C=he's on or off. tends to be completely silent, or the center of attention. does absurd stuff, and loves to see the reactions on other people's faces. totally inconstant. brief and impactful comments on other people's stories, and is a great listener. hates talking about himself or others and tries to keep it impersonal. nobody really knows what he does in his free time, and who is his girlfriend

This sounds like SLI.

he's on or off. tends to be completely silent, or the center of attention. does absurd stuff, and loves to see the reactions on other people's faces. totally inconstant.

'Shows a contrast in expression of his emotions: at times he is cool and self-absorbed, like "iceberg in the ocean", at other times – excited and energetic.' DarkAngelFireWolf69 type description

hates talking about himself or others and tries to keep it impersonal. nobody really knows what he does in his free time, and who is his girlfriend

'He trusts only deep affections – steady feelings that have been tested by time. In dealing with others, he sets his own psychological distance and grows very anxious if someone transgresses it. Intolerant of intrusive and imposing people ... He allows unfamiliar people close to himself only up to a certain point, where they can't have real impact on him. Values friendship very much.' DarkAngelFireWolf69 type description.

I think that person (you - option C ) sounds like an SLI. They have a psychological distance, no one really knows him, yet, he values his friendships very much.

Just going by that description, I would say you sound like me, I wouldn't be averse to using that same description about myself.

I'll give you an example, I dated someone for a short while whom I knew through work, one time she said to me, 'Who are you? You talk to people, have a laugh, do stuff, but no one really knows you.' That's the elusiveness of SLI, how it can manifest with independence and Fe PoLR.

[User Name]

Can't relate to any of those...

[Number 9 large]

this may be useful to understand my pov. should tell something quadra-wise



A=great at coming up with weird but creative stories. i realised he forethinks them, and they are based on preexisting stories. always on weed. is a great cook. gets too personal even with people he doesn't know well. his role may be "the joker", but i think it's hard to always fake laughs at his dull sentences


B=great drinking partner. presses other people to drink, along with me. very loud, creates a great atmosphere. doesn't dig too deep into other people's skin. just wants to have fun. not really clever, and jokes tend to be repetitive


C=he's on or off. tends to be completely silent, or the center of attention. does absurd stuff, and loves to see the reactions on other people's faces. totally inconstant. brief and impactful comments on other people's stories, and is a great listener. hates talking about himself or others and tries to keep it impersonal. nobody really knows what he does in his free time, and who is his girlfriend


D=constantly thinking about objective results achieved and that will be achieved. talks about girls like business partners "her father is rich", "she goes to a prestigious university", "she has great tits" (sad and squallid). pretty quiet, but he's always somewhere with some friends. loves comfort and his home. seems to be scared by unpredictability. great football player and car driver. he's the group organizer


E=the tall, skinny dude that vomits fountains after drinking a bottle of beer. great sense of direction, tends to guide us to the places D proposed. also good at organizing some events, but lacks the initiative. very open about his sentimental life. too open. after he got sick of talking about his scarse results, he started inventing big stories with girls he never saw (just my impression). i'm probably the only one noticing this, since everybody is amazed by his surprising adventures, lol)


F=the "i know everything. and if i don't know i'm gonna scream so i appear knowledgeable" guy. very short and skinny, became very arrogant with age. very open about vulgar details in his sexual life. he befriends "enemies" of people in the group, and gets surprised when he realizes they're douchebags. talking about some random topic with him always creates a heavy atmosphere. like, we're talking about music, and then he says stuff like "oh yes, you know their album from 1987, right? it got ptherozoidal elements in it, mixed with ambroustacy". no, i don't know


G=the fat teddy bear. know him since a lot of years, we sometimes give friendly punches or push each other away for fun. was bad at school but studied a lot (my opposite), and this gave room to funny jokes. reciprocate admiration. great empathy, it surprised me


P.S. one of these is me

A = ENTP
B = ESFj
C =ESFp
D = ESTj
E = IN/STp
F = ESTp
G = ISFj

[idontgiveaf]

C lol