IR for dummies

[Spermatozoa]

There are four types of personality traits.

1. Things you are good at and value (Ego Block).

2. Things you are good at and don't value (Id Block).

3. Things you are not good at and value (Super-Id Block).

4. Things you are not good at and don't value (Super-Ego Block).

You want a partner who has lots of your (3.), as they will want lots and lots of your (1.) and vice versa.

However, avoid any potential partner whose (1.) is your (4.), because they want your (2.), not your (1.)

Does that make sense?

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(From a conversation I am having on Skype right now.)

[Sol]

You want a partner who has lots of your (3.)

suborder (LSE->ILE) is bad IR for friendship
mirage (LSE-LII) is high of middle. not good

> avoid any potential partner whose (1.) is your (4.)

kindred (LSE-LIE) is middle. not bad
business (LSE-ESE) same

when Si/Se valued is same like yours, then physical part like sex is understood similarly by both
when Fe/Fi valued is same like yours, then emotional part like soul sympathy is understood similarly by both. while emotional part affects sexual too
when both have same ego function (without taking into account E/I variant) - this may become boring. the most interesting are conflictors, but they are tiresome and capricious

To deal romantically, especially for long, is better to limit to: duality/semi-duality/activation. Duality is significantly better even than these 2 mentioned. But 1/16 and 3/16 - too big difference in chances to find the needed human, while your heart they may get easily and those relations are better than average.

Anyway, it needs to remember all 16 IR kinds.
Imagine a picture of model A with those 8 squares for some type (yours or ILE). Then remember what IR has every of 16 types with this type. And imagine to what squares of model A of this type places 1st and 2nd functions the other type. Same will be for any 2 types - same squares.
For example, suborder places his ego functions to "activation" (6) and "controlling" (7) functions.

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