
Originally Posted by
Shaebette
The actions of that particular EII do not sound like an Fi-user's at all. Fi is all about distinctions- either I like you or I don't. Her sending you a birthday card every year yet she does not like you sounds more Fe because it's niceties>personal feelings, don't you think? I know a lot of Fe valuers who try to include and do do nice things for people they don't get along with, and that would be really hard for an Fi-user to do, they'd rather avoid or forget about you instead of 'pretend'.