Is it your experience that women care more than men about having a partner with comparable or superior intelligence?Originally Posted by Adam Strange
FWIW I don't think I particularly care about intelligence in a girl unless she's so stupid/disabled she's struggling in everyday life.
What is useful to know about duality relations development.
Despite duals inspire irrational sympathy, initial stage of a dualization of any types has a problem of different strong functions by which people prefer to base their decisions. In weak functions people are not good and duals are not an exception. Despite functions are valued, this does not mean people take them into account good. A dual notices this easily and wants to improve, as in other types of opposite functional club (including with bad IR).
The difference between good and bad IR here is that your dual accepts your opinions about his weak regions better as it's mainly about valued regions. Informal relations may become good not from the beginning, but they have good abbility to be improved (much easier than for bad IR). Also, as you have a sympathy then easier forgive mistakes and have higher interest to opinions of other one.
Easiest relations in the beginning should be between people of same types - identity IR, though they exhaust quickly as people have not much to give each other.
> "This is one thing that cannot be said about the irrational dyad of 4th quadra. Once dualized, they actually form a very prosperous and harmonious couple. But the process of dualization in this pair is perhaps the most difficult and lengthy one, in part because both partners in this pair are two different kinds of "Don Juan": one - in the intuitive ethical interpretation, and other other - in the sensory logical one."
Do not trust to baseless and nonsense opinions about types.
There should not be significant difference for different kinds of duality types about how good people feel there or how easy this is achieved.
Stratievskaya is not good source.
struggling in every day life? As in they have mental health problems? Sometimes I view my experience with mental health problems as stupidity…there is some cross over but there was also a lot of bad luck involved. Curious what you mean.
Last edited by Bethanyclaire; 07-04-2021 at 08:57 AM.
I've repeatedly considered the same thing. But these personality disorders have many criterion, beyond whats described in this push pull dance.
Random IEE - SLI dual picture I found:
You pretty much have to wait till both people realize that they actually don't want to be alone, life doesn't go on forever, options will eventually dry up. They're afraid to be rushed and to commit. When they're ready they'll eventually do it. I think the biggest problem is just falling into worse relationships with other types due to needing companionship and settling. Also fwiw I've seen these types marry early to each other and get divorced after a long relationship lol. All dual dyads have representatives that do this though. Ppl suck at realizing what limitations exist, at least I do.
"So this dyad doesn't dualize "at first sight"?"
idk if EII LSE necessarily does either
6 months before the click in my experience.
Sometimes you don't have motivation because you lack purpose.
Sometimes you don't have purpose, because you lack self-knowledge
Sometimes you don't have self-knowledge because you lack love
Sometimes you don't have love because you lack self-love
Sometimes you don't have self-love because you lack guess what? Ask Gulenko!!
In my experience they form a stable relationship really early on and stay together. Xxxj + fi valuing. I've seen SLI/IEE get married and stay together until they're old, then divorce lol. It's unfortunately part of their program, to split up.
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