Good to find this again, I was looking ir yo share another experience with SEI Fe coworker but was unable to remember where I shared this.
Anyway, this coworker wanted to go for a drink. I accepted only because My husband insisted me to go and went with me, also because another guy (possible SLI) suggested to change location since I was not going to assist because the pub that the SEI suggested was far from My house.
During the around 2 hrs of being at the meeting, the SEI was sharing the graphically detailed experience of her labour, 8 y/o brackets and nose surgery. I felt dizzy and decided to leave after seeing that she was not going to change the topic of the conversation. It was too much explicit information from a barely known person. The SLI dude looked as traumatizad as me. When going home, I said to my hub that she was too much for me, he told me she reminded him of his sister (that I type SEI Si), and I agreed. I decided to not going out with her anymore. Also she seemed not very pleased with me after discovering my a-social habits (arrive late and leave early or not assisting at all).