hotelambush Questionnaire (Lukida)

[Lukida]

hotelambush Questionnaire

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Tell me about yourself

Hello! I'm Claudia. I studied mbti for a year, then i rather started to switch to socionics a year ago. It's far better, more detailed. I want to understand myself and others too, to help me accept and understand others in general (their viewpoints, actions, behaviours)

What do you study or do for a living? How did you come to do that? What do you like or dislike about it?

I study myself, I do research but I'm not a student. I'm 23 years old and work in a confectionery. I have to make the cakes and I have to sell them too. I studied to be a programmer, but I didn't liked it and i don't remember it but somehow I got the idea to work in the service area. I like it because I don't have to work with others, when I'm in work, all place is mine so zero teamwork. I dislike it when there's a lot of customer and when I have to handle unexpected problems.

What are your values, and why?

I really don't know. I think my family is very important to me, but I never thinked much about my values, I mean I think I don't even know what my values are.
I think if I have a romantic interest, he become my first and greatest value. I rearrange my life for i can adapt to him in everything.

What else do you do on a daily basis? What are your interests and hobbies? Why do you do them?

Study socionics to better understand myself and others. I'm not proud of it but I have a hard time in my life now, so I play a lot of video games, it "helps" me to unfocus me from my thoughts (with more or less success). I have interest (if it can be considered to an interest) in other people, especially a romantic interest. I just think and worry about it, about them. When there's a contradiction I can spend hoursm days worrying and thinking about it.

What do you look for in friends? In romantic relationships?

I don't know, predictability maybe but it can be because of past failures.

What conflicts have you encountered recently with other people? Why did they happen? Which kinds seem to happen on a regular basis?

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How would your friends describe you?

I guess kind.

What are your weaknesses? What criticism do you often face from others? What do you dislike about yourself?

I worry a lot, hide my feelings for not disappoint others. People tell me I'm disorganized and just go with the flow. I dislike almost everything. I always feel like other people just tolerate me while they hate me. I think I'm boring and annoying. I have low self-esteem.

In what areas of life can you manage well on your own? In what areas of your life would you like help?

I don't know I can make food for myself I think i need help with everything. Would appreciate much if I just take care of somebody like I literally do for them everything, just please take care all of the bills and important papers and important things. PLEASE

What things do you find to be a chore? What things do you enjoy more than others?

Do the dishes, I actually like it, but I don't like to place the dry things to their place.

What goals, aspirations, or plans do you have for the future? How did you come to have them?

My goal is that somebody loves me with all his heart forever and I want him to feel that he never ever experienced things, feelings like this before me. And I want to learn to ride a horse because people say that if you learn to make a 400kg animal to obey you, it gives a huge confidence.

If you had enough money to live comfortably for the rest of your life without working, what would you do with your time?

I guess I would just enjoy family time do with them what we like to do, learn to ride a horse, and I like to make videos for youtube, for example i choose a music and my favourite films and edit it in a way that the scenes fit to the music.

What traits do you find endearing that others might dislike? What traits are considered positive/neutral by others but tend to annoy you?

I don't know i think it's too nuanced for me to answer it and depends on the situation.

What kinds of things do you do to manage and/or beautify your environment (your room, your house, etc.)? What do you think of daily chores?

There's never a mess in my room, i just have to clean the natural dust from time to time and I clean my floor 3-4 times a week. I don't beautify it, I just sometimes buy statues (i have a fairy, a dog, a horse etc) and i think thoose beautify it.

How do you behave around strangers?

Depends on the stranger, I can give them all my life and secrets in one converstation, or be closed.

How do you react to conflict? What do you do if somebody insults or attacks you?

Nope. I try to avoid, ignore it as much as possible. I take everything at heart, even a strict, eye rolling look. I feel like my heart break through my chest, panic and even cry.

What is one common misconception that people have? Explain why it is wrong.

I thinked about it but there's too much sides. Like i can say 'all people who shy are gulliable' or some random thing but I don't like common things, I think there's no common things. Not all thing is applied to all situation and not all people will think the same.

What did you do last Friday?

Was home probably in front of my computer.

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What is your biggest accomplishment?

I broke up with my ex-boyfriend who I didn't wanted to be with, it took me 3 years but I did it!
(And this is not related here I just want to thank you this questionnaire, I enjoyed)

[Sol]

cute fox, make video
http://www.the16types.info/vbulletin...=1#post1096450

[Chae]

@Lukida thanks for making the thread! Can you extend your answers a bit, and add to the 6th and 7th one? Then I'll step in for some type suggestions. So far I think you are likely SX first, maybe enneagram 6, ethical type.

[Lukida]

Sure! As for the 6th question: I don't get into conflicts with other people, just sometimes in my workplace because I'm very forgetful and I got into trouble because of this. And they asked me for do a thing and I didn't do it for 1-2 months i actually don't know why, maybe i don't like to been told what to do, and they had to beg me all the time for do it. Actually this happens all the time. I can delay things for long months :/ But I don't have bad intentions.

I don't understand fully the 7th question. Which kind of conflict? My forgetfulness and scatterbrained nature cause me conflict.

[Sol]

I can delay things for long months :/

would be strange for base Fi

[maniac]

sounds 9 for how much you avoid conflict

[Chae]

Sure! As for the 6th question: I don't get into conflicts with other people, just sometimes in my workplace because I'm very forgetful and I got into trouble because of this. And they asked me for do a thing and I didn't do it for 1-2 months i actually don't know why, maybe i don't like to been told what to do, and they had to beg me all the time for do it. Actually this happens all the time. I can delay things for long months :/ But I don't have bad intentions.

I don't understand fully the 7th question. Which kind of conflict? My forgetfulness and scatterbrained nature cause me conflict.

Ok, thanks! What types of things do you typically forget/procrastinate in those situations?

[Lukida]

I forget what they told me before, sometimes when they explain something to me, i don't remember the beginning of the talk, i get lost in my own thoughts while they talk to me. once a customer ordered a cake and i forgot to write it in the calendar and she didn't got her cake. i forget the recipes, it's hard for me to remember the little details.
Things i procrastinate: they told me to write thoose things i forgot to an excercise book, and i didn't bought that book, and after i bought it, they told me to write it down already, but i didn't wrote. And I should go to the company doctor because if i don't have valid health booklet with valid signature, i can get a high price fine.
But i just couldn't prevail upon myself to go to the doctor. It's hard for me to deal with this kind of things. The doctor was far from my home, and the valid health booklet costs money. I procrastinated this for a half year.
And when they ask me thursday about what happened on sunday in the workplace, i don't remember a thing.

[Sol]

seems another P type

[WinnieW]

I forget what they told me before, sometimes when they explain something to me, i don't remember the beginning of the talk, i get lost in my own thoughts while they talk to me...

Sounds familiar to me, Claudia. That happen also quite often to me... ...gets carried away into imagination land... ok, back in reality. Ehm. What happend a moment ago?

It even happend that I forget to post whole sentences in forums I already had in my mind.
Personal running gag of myself: When I go shopping and have a list of products that I'm about to buy in my mind. I almost always forget one product to buy.

German joke about your name: Claudia means – in german – someone has stolen a slide from a slide show.
Don't take this seriously, this is just a pun.

[Kiba]

Claudia, you seem pretty ISFp to me.
All you wrote is pretty much the description of a ISFp girl that I met once. She also works (and enjoy) doing bakery. She made her degree in graphic design but it was somehow hard for her in that area guess.

[Lukida]

Sounds familiar to me, Claudia. That happen also quite often to me... ...gets carried away into imagination land... ok, back in reality. Ehm. What happend a moment ago?

It even happend that I forget to post whole sentences in forums I already had in my mind.
Personal running gag of myself: When I go shopping and have a list of products that I'm about to buy in my mind. I almost always forget one product to buy.

Omg ecaxtly Once i was send to shopping for buy just 1 thing (milk). Guess what I didn't buy xD
Also I lost my interest in people stories like in just 5 second.
Haha that joke In my country my name means lame (because of Claudius emperor) which is actually quite fun because I always broke everything. My workplace is existing about 20 years, and my boss told me nobody never broke this much thing like me in a year. I broke plates, glasses, even plastic things i guess i'm hopeless.
If my SLI coworker don't look after me i kill myself even with a pen xD I adore her

[Lukida]

Claudia, you seem pretty ISFp to me.
All you wrote is pretty much the description of a ISFp girl that I met once. She also works (and enjoy) doing bakery. She made her degree in graphic design but it was somehow hard for her in that area guess.

Thank you for your feedback! I appreciate every information. Yeah it can be possible that I feel so strongly Fi because of demonstrative. I did this test i found reliable (it said INFx): http://www.socionics.com/sta/sta-1-r.html?0:::
But I don't know i read that if you cannot decide if you are a sensor or intuitive you are XXXj, if cannot decide if you are logical or ethical then XXXp. But I don't question if I'm a thinker i know i'm not one. I don't know if i'm sensing or intuitive.

[Sol]

I don't know if i'm sensing or intuitive.

S types don't break stuff a lot, generally. You seem to have issues with body and environment sensing.

[Lukida]

seems another P type

It can be actually, because i found this: Ixxp: They are go-with-the-flow types who prefer to react rather than instigate so can appear somewhat unmotivated until they're stimulated (or threatened).

This happened exactly. I didn't do my things untill my coworker threatened me sometimes :/ She told me that it's the only one mode for deal with me. She asked why she must threaten me to act?

[Kiba]

Thank you for your feedback! I appreciate every information. Yeah it can be possible that I feel so strongly Fi because of demonstrative. I did this test i found reliable (it said INFx): http://www.socionics.com/sta/sta-1-r.html?0:::
But I don't know i read that if you cannot decide if you are a sensor or intuitive you are XXXj, if cannot decide if you are logical or ethical then XXXp. But I don't question if I'm a thinker i know i'm not one. I don't know if i'm sensing or intuitive.

Well, your work field and the part where you said that you'll enjoy taking care of someone entirely (except finances and papers), made me think in Si lead (caregiver).

But guess INFj would be possible too. I honestly don't trust questionnaires as reliable method of typing because at the end, evaluations are only opinions based in knowledge and experience (so accuracy depends on +/-knowledge and experience) of the typer and the info provided is pretty limited too.

Anyway, there are other tests in this forum and I suggest aimtoknow.com and sociotype.com tests (are more reliable than the one from socionics.com imo). Also you can check the articles section and look into SEI and EII descriptions and the quadra values and complexes too, so you can see in which quadra you fit in the most.

http://www.the16types.info/vbulletin...cs-Four-Quadra

[Lukida]

Well, your work field and the part where you said that you'll enjoy taking care of someone entirely (except finances and papers), made me think in Si lead (caregiver).

But guess INFj would be possible too. I honestly don't trust questionnaires as reliable method of typing because at the end, evaluations are only opinions based in knowledge and experience (so accuracy depends on +/-knowledge and experience) of the typer and the info provided is pretty limited too.

Anyway, there are other tests in this forum and I suggest aimtoknow.com and sociotype.com tests (are more reliable than the one from socionics.com imo). Also you can check the articles section and look into SEI and EII descriptions and the quadra values and complexes too, so you can see in which quadra you fit the most.

http://www.the16types.info/vbulletin...cs-Four-Quadra

Look, this is what i got in that one. It says EII but with strangely high Si. I don't know i just adore that Si function. Yeah and i know that it takes a lot to fully understand socionics, and there's always a possibility that i undertood something wrong, so it's almost always up to a discussion.
My one favourite thing is if there's a nice atmosphere in my family, and I just lay down in the bed and hear them like a background noise. I don't have to participate in the interaction it just feel good to be there. Also i have a brother and he just laying in the bed comfortably, silently doing his things and I can be next to him for hours in full silence but that gives me full comfort.

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[Sol]

i know that it takes a lot to fully understand socionics

Video-interview would help.

[Exodus]

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