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    Default One is a leecher and the other being leeched

    What do you call this in socionics?

    Like in one romantic relationship, one side only benefits while the other is getting worse?

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    Benefit is that one is benefitted and the other one is oretty much not affected that much. Supervision is that one is bleeding. Maybe Supervision. Or just when some is less experienced in life.

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    There are no such things in Socionics. If you have good IR - you benefit both, and in bad IR - suffer both.

    There are kind of unequal IR like ordering and revising, but subordere and subreviser don't feel good and oderder and reviser don't get support they want.

    I think any romatic relation besides duality, activation and semi-duality should be avoided. As you will stay hunger in what you need from your pair.
    Types examples: video bloggers, actors

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    I'd call it a relationship that won't last long.

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    I'd call it an Fi/Se evaluation (people getting what they want out of a relationship or not).

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    Basing on personality typologies this is most likely to happen when one person is like Nx the supervisor and/or benefactor of another person and not particularly scrupulous. If the other person doesn't have enough self-esteem, they start fawning before the person who seems to be so ahead of them, and that runs the potential to create a very asymmetric relationship where one person mostly gives and another one takes. Still depends on people involved. I've mostly seen people give in being unaware of it themselves, but it's not a given that their benefactor/supervisor will only take as sometimes they will try to repay by their support and protection.

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    Quote Originally Posted by thehotelambush View Post
    I'd call it an Fi/Se evaluation (people getting what they want out of a relationship or not).
    Really? Can you explain?

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    Quote Originally Posted by idontgiveaf View Post
    Really? Can you explain?
    I thought I just did? You are recognizing a state of affairs that is more "visible" to those with strong Se and/or Fi.

    As for the types/socionic relationship of the people involved, there is less to say. In fact it is complementary relationships that can appear "leech-like" to outsiders. Or you could speculate that one type is more "giving" or duty-bound than the other, e.g. ESE or LSI. Need more information.

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