Member Questionnaire 1 (Diana)
What is beauty? What is love? Beauty is relative. Love is a mystery.
What are your most important values? Family, home, security, fun.
Do you have any sort of spiritual/religious beliefs, and why do you hold (or don't) those beliefs in the first place? I am Christian. I found God in my darkest times an he helps me every day.
Opinion on war and militaries? What is power to you? I dont understand, how people can think, that it is good idea to deal with problems through war. Security is needed.
What have you had long conversations about? What are your interests? Why? About books, movies, social problems, God.
Interested in health/medicine as a conversation topic? Are you focused on your body? I try to be systematic, but i sometimes fail at it. I sometimes worry.
What do you think of daily chores? Easy game
Books or films you liked? Recently read/watched or otherwise. Examples welcome. GOT, Harry Potter, The Office, Black Mirror. Recent book: 1984 by Orwell..good book, makes you think.
What has made you cry? What has made you smile? Why? Cry- stress an feeling of loneliness within my family. Laugh- movie.
Where do you feel: at one with the environment/a sense of belonging? Sometimes i feel, like i dont belong to this world.
What have people seen as your weaknesses? What do you dislike about yourself? Shyness, naive, idealism, stubborness, hot -temper
What have people seen as your strengths? What do you like about yourself? Helpful, reliable, caring
In what areas of your life would you like help? Love, self- esteem, feeling of safety and self- development
Ever feel stuck in a rut? If yes, describe the causes and your reaction to it. I rarely feel it
What qualities do you most like and dislike in other people? What types do you get along with? I like openness, loyality, kindness. I dont like people, who think that they cant change anyting, that you must take things as they are even if you dont like them, cruelty.
How do you feel about romance/sex? What qualities do you want in a partner? Reliable, caring and just someone, who is on my side in this world.
If you were to raise a child, what would be your main concerns, what measures would you take, and why? Main concern is social environment where he will grow up.
A friend makes a claim that clashes with your current beliefs. What is your inward and outward reaction? Outword- listen, listen then at the end say my beliefs. Inward- i try to keep in mind, that there are many sides of a thing.
Describe your relationship to society. How do you see people as a whole? What do you consider a prevalent social problem? Name one. I feel distant. I feel that the biggest problem is how much pain children get from family. People need healing.
How do you choose your friends and how do you behave around them? Friend for me is a person with whom i can talk to, tell my problems and who understands. I like that friends dont try to tell what to do in a problem, but who understands and tallk through. . I have friends only from childhood. Then i were more open. I have lost few friends from childhood.
How do you behave around strangers? I am shy and silent, but try to smile.