
Originally Posted by
Reyne
I'm probably SLI but I ain't sure, so don't give too much credit to my post:
He probably thinks that he gave you more love than you did. Most of the time when an SLI shows his love and tries to be kind, he appears cold on the surface, so the other people won't even notice it. The other person doesn't notice it, but the SLI kind of expects a love reaction. We are cold and apparently never do cute things, but we hold our partners to high standards.
Don't ask him questions about his behaviour. As you said, it will only irritate him, and he will consider you to be whiney. An SLI doesn't want to talk about his emotions. He wants you to understand them.
You said that the SLI was the one who had the initiative for conversations. It nearly never happens to us. We only do that with people we consider special. The SLI is waiting for something huge from you. I think he wants a big proof of your love.