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    Default Emotionally bullied: that's why i developed Feelings

    Have you encountered this?

    I always have been emotionally bullied since i was a kid.

    1. Probably 13yo, i just say whatever the fuck is on my mind.. I'm not aware that people are actually hurted by it.. I will just gonna knew that what i have said was wrong when someone told me I've hurted someone
    2. When i was in highschool, some classmates just hate me. I don't know why, actually. then whenever I'm saying the truth like that thing is bad looking. Some of my classmate will get mad at me, they're saying I'm Insensitive.. And i will always defend myself that it's actually the truth.
    3. College. Some feeler types as well made me their center of attention and told me that i was like this, I'm Insensitive and shit..
    4. When i turned 22, my ex told me that I'm selfish and i have no feelings.
    5. My bestfriend told me that i should give a fuck about other people.

    So there, throughout the years I'm emotionally bullied by feeler types..

    So i have actually developed this kind of "people pleasing shit trauma" xD

    Like i always make sure now if i hurt someone probably because I'm already old you know.

    And i think i also have developed my EQ.

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    hmm...maybe you're SLE?

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    Quote Originally Posted by thehotelambush View Post
    hmm...maybe you're SLE?
    Oh thanks. You're the only one who replied because everyone is


    Stupid


    To type me.


    Yeah I'm also thinking of that possibility that i was originally a thinker type.. Which have been a feeler type later on life

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    Quote Originally Posted by idontgiveaf View Post
    So there, throughout the years I'm emotionally bullied by feeler types.
    I'm not sure people calling you out on anti-social bebaviour constitutes bullying.

    As people grow up they develop their EQ. Some more than others. I'm sure that the particular way you read EQ is peer-based. But it's probably wrong to say you developed feelings (of any kind) because people were mad at you for being insensitive. What you describe is just you realising the necessity of not doing being an asshole in public: I guess in socionics this is like one-d ethics or something.
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    Quote Originally Posted by totalize View Post
    I'm not sure people calling you out on anti-social bebaviour constitutes bullying.

    As people grow up they develop their EQ. Some more than others. I'm sure that the particular way you read EQ is peer-based. But it's probably wrong to say you developed feelings (of any kind) because people were mad at you for being insensitive. What you describe is just you realising the necessity of not doing being an asshole in public: I guess in socionics this is like one-d ethics or something.
    I'm not being an asshole. :/ because when i say things i never intend to bash anyone there

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