Ime female SLIs tend to be more witty in communication, more artistic and more compassionate than males.
As dorm said, female SLIs tend to appear more masculine or neutral than average girls, while male IEEs tend to be more feminine or neutral than other types.
It was posted once the scale of masculinity/femininity in sociotypes, which I found very interesting since I really fit the measure (was 0 on femininity, lol).
Some of my way of thinking, body movements and way of talk can be specially unfeminine. I noticed this after watching full body pictures and videos and being told by friends. Surprisingly, that doesnt make me look less attractive for males, apparently.
SLI males that I've seen look completely normal as the average masculine guy.
About enneagram mentioned above, is true. I'm similar to fellows SLI 9s. My communication style and train of thought seems also similar to others with my same tritype (952), doesn't matter the sociotype or the order of tritype.
IDK, others have had this kind of impression or feeling about me in the past, mostly females NFs (IEI, EII, ime). It seems like I'm always a mystery for them no matter how many years we've know to each other. They seem like not fully understand me (and sometimes make wrong assumptions or do stuff that offends me), but not because I'm hard to understand, guess is our psychological configurations what makes it harder for them. Apparently, males NFs in general (there are exceptions too) seem to get me better than females. Maybe its just that females SLIs are indeed more masculine than the average girl.
However, I don't think that I'm physically less feminine than random girls (I mean not in outfit or general features), but apparently, psychologically and in attitude I am. Not surprise that I've better relationships with males in general with more deep understanding in psychological level than with most female feelers. However I must say that is also hard for me to understand some females and some feminine guys, and supporting this with enneagram, I'd say I can have better understanding with 6 and 9 (probably 9w8) females (even if they are feelers) than with other e types probably.
Yes. When I'm with dual I seem to switch to Ne somehow, while he seems to get on a more serious way. Anyway I think is precisely the using of suggestive function that is excited by the other, since its not a real display of Ne or Si, but like a Si Nees and a SiNees…lol, don't have better words for explain that.
Its how you said, you start acting in certain way but at the end you still being Ne.
For me, I immediately turns into good mood and playful side. I start to be very creative in my playfulness, while my IEE starts being kind of serious and less emotional, like a more mature person (!), while I feel like a little kid. lol
Then, he even gets in a
parental mood (pseudo caregiver/aggressor), which is actually funny.
Not at all. (Plus I don't believe in past lives).
Hope that helps