Is my crush my dual? Long story. :/ please bear with me

[idontgiveaf]

first letter is you first function
second letter is your 2nd function
last is the same as MBTI's E vs I

here are the conversions from MBTI to socionics:
iNtuition => Intuition
Sensing => Sensing
Thinking => Logic
Feeling => Ethics

so if we used ILI as an example, we can say his first function is intuition, followed by logic and he is introverted (this makes his first function introverted, and the second extroverted)
so we get Ni as first function and Te as second function

I hope this is not confusing

Omg!!! That's a wonderful tip! I understood it! Thanks!!!!

[idontgiveaf]

well you can't explain the personality types of complicated creatures like humans with a simple system

That's true. socionics cannot give as full answers. But only idea why

[idontgiveaf]

Nr 1 rule of socionics. All your crushes become your dual

Ehhhh?! Really?? Probably. Because my crush are usually introverts u know.

[idontgiveaf]

No, not just because they are duals. But it helps.
I think absolutely any two people can get along with each other. It just depends on how much compromising they are willing to do.
And not all duals get along with each other. Not by a long shot.

But i think my crush and I is really different person. Like opposite personality u know!

I don't actually know why i like him besides he's cute. We're not even talking deeply or anything.. He's just my crush hahahaha.

I'm just attracted with who he is.

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But i think my crush and I is really different person. Like opposite personality u know!

I don't actually know why i like him besides he's cute. We're not even talking deeply or anything.. He's just my crush hahahaha.

I'm just attracted with who he is.

Well i'd say ask him out and see what happens

[Simo]

I don't even know why i told that. I still crush him.hahahaha..because i think he likes me too!

Because he's always smiling at me like he's always smiling when I'm around!! He's not like that with anyone you know! Because he's serious and he's not the type to smile everytime! Hihi.

And earlier hahahahahahahhahahahahhahahahahahahahhahahahahahha !!

It's about to go home and he told me to send him the report i made.
I already finished it actually.
(if he doesn't like me then he'll just get the report straight. But he didn't)
He asked like, "you can take overtime if you haven't finished your work." xD
And then he could just get the USB drive but he still told me to transfer it on a different pc and send it as email.
Then he could just go out after he gave me instructions, but he stayed with me in the room which is unusual because he doesn't treat me like that before u know hahahahaha!!!!!!
I think he's starting to get a crush on me?
And he's a J-type. but he's not turned off by my weirdness and unprofessionalism.
You know, i could just not have a crush on him if i think i have no single chanxe.. But then, omg!! Why is he acting like that on me. He's not like that to anyone haha!
I'm so special hihi. Jk.
Well his smile. It looks genuine. why he cannot take off his smile when I'm around hihi ♡
Dammnnn omg!! I cannot believe it if he really got a crush at me as well!!! Omgggggggggggggg!!!!!!!

do you laugh between every two sentences even irl?
Also, how do you define J-type? punctuality? organized?

[idontgiveaf]

Well i'd say ask him out and see what happens

I don't like anymore. Hahaha. You know we got some history you know xD

We just met for two days, and i think he's an introvert or ambivert.

I actually asked him out when I'm still new at my place!

Like a friendly one.

I have a question: do i seem like I'm hitting on him here in this conversation?
Me: what places can you recommend here?
Him: blah blah blah
Me: nice one! If you have time can you go with me there?!

*bang

He actually said he's busy that night but he went with me the other night!

Buttt.. When we're like on the restaurant, he seems off. Like he suddenly became cold. -_- like i think, he thinks I'm trying to hit on him!
He's been off to me like that for like a week. Until i reported a pervert that's hitting on me in the office. And he suddenly became nice to me again. Fucking weird guy.

Then i don't know. Probably I'm just assuming he likes me too. Well if he doesn't like me, then i have no problem with that.. The thing is, I'm already okay with our situation and i will no longer invite him. Because i don't know.

I really don't know him yet. He seems like he's just putting up a face.

But during the time we hangout, he's very serious like he only talks about work. Boring 💤.

The i asked him some questions like just to befriend him actually! It's not like i wanna be her girlfriend or anything. That time i just like him not really as a crush. I just wanna befriend him!

But i kinda get turned off when he changed his attitude like he held back or anything as if I'm gonna do something bad at him.

I didn't like him anymore after that. Because I'm not that stupid to force myself to someone i know who doesn't like my existence.

But after the incident at the pervert, he suddenly became nicer again and weird. Maybe he suddenly fell for me. Lol hahaha

And well, I'm a little whore lol. I'm always giving him attention! And tries showing i like him hahahaha.. until last week i didn't anymore give him the attention and I'm just like chill because sometimes my feelings come, and it also goes..and besides i don't think he likes me too. So what's the sense of.liking him back right?!

And maybe he also realized that I'm not hitting on him because he sees me I'm close with some guys as well. So i think that reason enough makes him be comfortable that I'm not a creep!

And probably he saw that I'm cool. Joke hahahahahahahahhahaha.

I don't know about him. But i will never ask him out again.

[idontgiveaf]

do you laugh between every two sentences even irl?
Also, how do you define J-type? punctuality? organized?

I laugh Yeah xD

J-types meaning he's really serious about his work. That's my definition.

Because before we're hanging out outside office and he only talks about job wth xD such a fucking robot.

Then he suddenly became nicer to me.. And he smiles a lot and became more not like a robot which is pretty awesome.

Probably he got overwhelmed at me at first. Like i feel like i invaded his personal space