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    I'm gonna meet my crush tomorrow hihi. He's so cute and kinda i don't know, kill joy?

    Because my p-type boss told me to come tomorrow at 1pm.

    Then he also messaged me that he will be in the office tomorrow so i should come there at 9am.

    Well it's actually not a problem for me since I'm gonna see him first

    Then i said okay.

    Then after that he said sorry that i just can come tomorrow at 1pm hahahah. Fucking annoying joke. Atleast you realized empathy now my crush hihi.

    You should hangout with me more and let's removed that j-ness in you haha.

    I think he's hmmmm
    I don't know he's hard to type actually. -_-

    He's also fucking complicated or I'm just hihi ♡

    Probably he got kinda annoyed at me at first lol

    But after the incident with the pervert he became nicer to me again.

    Okay.. I already know why. Because he obviously doesn't like aggressive girls haha xD

    He wants to be in charge because i kinda see a manly ego to him..

    So, okay hihi!

    Last time we met i didn't hangout with him that much because i wanna get off my little crush for him because there's a possibility that i can move places..

    But since i failed the interview hahahahahah xD i can stay longer hihi ♡

    So i can have a crush with him again. Hihi ♡

    He's just my crush actually because i know i cannot get him. he's kinda hard to get. He's a j-type lol xD

    But i think he kinda likes me too hihi ♡

    Because there's a time that he's meeting me, he is ALL SMILE. like seriously like he cannot take off his smile hahahaha.

    I like him smiling like that hes so cute..

    Then last meeting i met him too, we're actually about to eat a buffet in a company and i called him on phone because i got lost

    Then he told me the way and i have seen it..

    Then i saw him standing outside waiting for me.. Hahahaha!!!

    Is there's meaning on that?

    But i didn't flirt with him that time because you know I'm guarding my feelings to the possibile result if i will be moving new place again..

    So tomorrow,
    #goto first sentence xD
    #loop

    I love you crush. I actually reserve some condoms for you. Hihi. Don't be shy to me, just let it go.. If you just let go then you won't regret it you'll be happier than ever..



    Then last drinking session too, i got drunk and he actually lead me way home until the door of my apartment hihi. I really thought there's something that would happen that time but he's a good person so i shouldn't hope hahahah.

    Then, his way home is actually different but he still went with me on a different direction.

    Then another clue he might also like me:

    He called me that i got an interview in a far far away place.. I told him, okay... But i don't wanna leave this place!
    Then his voice changed, he said i should just do my best.. And then i said thank you.. Then he kinda react differently you know like he's also sounded like he's sad that i will be going else where too..

    My crush is actually a thinking type. And, yeah I'm happy seeing him like a feeler such a cutie hihi ♡

    Well i guess I'm 50% assuming but there's a possibility he also likes me too hahaha.

    And, i also like the fact that he just allow me to be drunk like he's not a killjoy like some guys actually are killjoys that they're telling me to woman up because girls aren't supposed to drink.

    But he, he's like amused when i drink a lot like it's interesting for him that i drink a lot hahahahah!

    Maybe he's my dual.



    So guy's, is my crush my dual?

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    Quote Originally Posted by idontgiveaf View Post


    I'm gonna meet my crush tomorrow hihi. He's so cute and kinda i don't know, kill joy?

    Because my p-type boss told me to come tomorrow at 1pm.

    Then he also messaged me that he will be in the office tomorrow so i should come there at 9am.

    Well it's actually not a problem for me since I'm gonna see him first

    Then i said okay.

    Then after that he said sorry that i just can come tomorrow at 1pm hahahah. Fucking annoying joke. Atleast you realized empathy now my crush hihi.

    You should hangout with me more and let's removed that j-ness in you haha.

    I think he's hmmmm
    I don't know he's hard to type actually. -_-

    He's also fucking complicated or I'm just hihi ♡

    Probably he got kinda annoyed at me at first lol

    But after the incident with the pervert he became nicer to me again.

    Okay.. I already know why. Because he obviously doesn't like aggressive girls haha xD

    He wants to be in charge because i kinda see a manly ego to him..

    So, okay hihi!

    Last time we met i didn't hangout with him that much because i wanna get off my little crush for him because there's a possibility that i can move places..

    But since i failed the interview hahahahahah xD i can stay longer hihi ♡

    So i can have a crush with him again. Hihi ♡

    He's just my crush actually because i know i cannot get him. he's kinda hard to get. He's a j-type lol xD

    But i think he kinda likes me too hihi ♡

    Because there's a time that he's meeting me, he is ALL SMILE. like seriously like he cannot take off his smile hahahaha.

    I like him smiling like that hes so cute..

    Then last meeting i met him too, we're actually about to eat a buffet in a company and i called him on phone because i got lost

    Then he told me the way and i have seen it..

    Then i saw him standing outside waiting for me.. Hahahaha!!!

    Is there's meaning on that?

    But i didn't flirt with him that time because you know I'm guarding my feelings to the possibile result if i will be moving new place again..

    So tomorrow,
    #goto first sentence xD
    #loop

    I love you crush. I actually reserve some condoms for you. Hihi. Don't be shy to me, just let it go.. If you just let go then you won't regret it you'll be happier than ever..



    Then last drinking session too, i got drunk and he actually lead me way home until the door of my apartment hihi. I really thought there's something that would happen that time but he's a good person so i shouldn't hope hahahah.

    Then, his way home is actually different but he still went with me on a different direction.

    Then another clue he might also like me:

    He called me that i got an interview in a far far away place.. I told him, okay... But i don't wanna leave this place!
    Then his voice changed, he said i should just do my best.. And then i said thank you.. Then he kinda react differently you know like he's also sounded like he's sad that i will be going else where too..

    My crush is actually a thinking type. And, yeah I'm happy seeing him like a feeler such a cutie hihi ♡

    Well i guess I'm 50% assuming but there's a possibility he also likes me too hahaha.

    And, i also like the fact that he just allow me to be drunk like he's not a killjoy like some guys actually are killjoys that they're telling me to woman up because girls aren't supposed to drink.

    But he, he's like amused when i drink a lot like it's interesting for him that i drink a lot hahahahah!

    Maybe he's my dual.



    So guy's, is my crush my dual?
    It seems possible that he's a dual. ILI guys can be tolerant, helpful, non-judgemental when it comes to SEE's, and of course, are rational. They can also be very supportive gentlemen.

    I have a few good ILI friends, and they seem to not stay interested in most women unless they are SEE's. Furthermore, they all are interested in finance, a couple of them became very well-off, financially, and because we are good friends and tend to talk about our GF's, I also know that they are very open to sexual craziness, once they decide that they like a girl.

    If you want to see what female ILI' s are like (and the males are similar), watch a video by George Ezra (SEE) called Cassie-O. Almost all the women in the video are ILI.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Adam Strange View Post
    ILI guys can be tolerant, helpful, non-judgemental when it comes to SEE's, and of course, are rational. They can also be very supportive gentlemen.
    is this a special treatment for SEEs only?

    I have a few good ILI friends, and they seem to not stay interested in most women unless they are SEE's.
    this makes it sounds like the only successful relationships are the duals only, I don't really think you would be interested in someone just because you are duals

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    Quote Originally Posted by Simo View Post
    is this a special treatment for SEEs only?



    this makes it sounds like the only successful relationships are the duals only, I don't really think you would be interested in someone just because you are duals
    No, not just because they are duals. But it helps.
    I think absolutely any two people can get along with each other. It just depends on how much compromising they are willing to do.
    And not all duals get along with each other. Not by a long shot.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Adam Strange View Post
    It seems possible that he's a dual. ILI guys can be tolerant, helpful, non-judgemental when it comes to SEE's, and of course, are rational. They can also be very supportive gentlemen.

    I have a few good ILI friends, and they seem to not stay interested in most women unless they are SEE's. Furthermore, they all are interested in finance, a couple of them became very well-off, financially, and because we are good friends and tend to talk about our GF's, I also know that they are very open to sexual craziness, once they decide that they like a girl.

    If you want to see what female ILI' s are like (and the males are similar), watch a video by George Ezra (SEE) called Cassie-O. Almost all the women in the video are ILI.
    Send me the link.

    But i think he's more of a sensor though. :/ and a j-type.. But he's got Fe. but not dominant function. I actually don't knooooowwwww. He's not intp. Unfortunately

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    Quote Originally Posted by idontgiveaf View Post
    Send me the link.

    But i think he's more of a sensor though. :/ and a j-type.. But he's got Fe. but not dominant function. I actually don't knooooowwwww. He's not intp. Unfortunately
    here's the link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ubztYMkI3fY

    He may not be an ILI, but from your description, he acts like one. Also, those are the things that you noticed.

    Interestingly enough, I'm crushing on an ESI-Se, and the way you worded your post reminds me a lot of what I think must be her internal dialog. It seems similar, but not exact. I'm pretty sure her thought process is more linear, but whatever. And for what it's worth, I'm a j-type with enhanced Se, so if you are sure that your crush is not an ILI, you might have gotten an LIE. LIE's have role Fe. I'm super-extroverted now, but in my twenties, I looked introverted. Here's a
    pic of me from that time: http://i.imgur.com/3OE87gA.jpg


    Here's a quick way to tell ILI from LIE. When an LIE first meets someone, he will be fairly nice to them, unless he's drunk and being obnoxious. When an ILI first meets someone, he will be kind of a dick to them.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Adam Strange View Post
    Here's a quick way to tell ILI from LIE. When an LIE first meets someone, he will be fairly nice to them, unless he's drunk and being obnoxious. When an ILI first meets someone, he will be kind of a dick to them.
    No. Why are you telling people to use that as a gauge? I have not met ILI who were just automatic dicks to people on first meet. They were actually pretty polite and reserved unless values clashed but they never really went into values on first meeting anyway.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Adam Strange View Post
    here's the link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ubztYMkI3fY

    He may not be an ILI, but from your description, he acts like one. Also, those are the things that you noticed.

    Interestingly enough, I'm crushing on an ESI-Se, and the way you worded your post reminds me a lot of what I think must be her internal dialog. It seems similar, but not exact. I'm pretty sure her thought process is more linear, but whatever. And for what it's worth, I'm a j-type with enhanced Se, so if you are sure that your crush is not an ILI, you might have gotten an LIE. LIE's have role Fe. I'm super-extroverted now, but in my twenties, I looked introverted. Here's a
    pic of me from that time: http://i.imgur.com/3OE87gA.jpg


    Here's a quick way to tell ILI from LIE. When an LIE first meets someone, he will be fairly nice to them, unless he's drunk and being obnoxious. When an ILI first meets someone, he will be kind of a dick to them.


    Hmmm
    . It can be more of LIE though! Because i can see his Fe. but he's not a dom Fe for sure.

    And he's nice at first but he also have tendencies to be a dick hahahaha. i mean, not in an obvious way, like he will make you feel unwelcomed. Sort of like that.

    There's actually one time that he just doesn't smile at me at all because he thinks I'm Hitting on him. It's my fault actually lol xD i did something stupid but thankfully was able to revive it hahahahhahaha xD

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    everything feels like duality when you're in love lol

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    From your story he seems to be a N type, other than that, hard to tell.
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    Quote Originally Posted by peteronfireee View Post
    everything feels like duality when you're in love lol
    Hahahahahahhahahahahhahahha!! That's right! LOL

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    Quote Originally Posted by FDG View Post
    From your story he seems to be a N type, other than that, hard to tell.
    Whaaaa really?!! Then that's fucking amazing! Hahaha xD

    I actually sense some introvertion or intuition i think! yes he can be an intuitive!

    Here's what i noticed about him: type him haha

    1. He's more of a listener than a talker. And it seems like he preferred that way xD
    2. He's very inclined to his job very much like he takes his job really really seriously.
    3. He's got some Fe. hihi. That's probably why i kinda like him? Hihi. Because aside from being such a cutie, he's really nice too hahaha
    But
    4. I think he can be introvert, like an outgoing introvert? Because sometimes i feel like I'm invading his personal space hahahahaha. and he doesn't like it. like he doesn't seem like being asked too personal questions lol!!! He'd rather listen to your embarassing stories than tell something about himself. He's kinda secretive i guess
    5. But i learned something really new about him that he loves travelling a lot like he travelled from different countries by himself (eventhough he doesn't speak English hahaha xD)
    6. Actually we got some language barrier lol.xD hahaha xD because we cannot understand each other that much..but i don't know he just loves to hear me tell stories xD it's like he's very entertained when I'm telling stories hahahahahahahhaha

    I don't know probably he likes me in a friendship level only that's why i like him too but well friendship is better!

    I also kinda feel he might be an mbti istj xD

    But he's really nice you know!!

    But sometimes he wasn't consistently nice. It's like he's just putting an Fe for a facade because it's his job to be an Fe xD

    He's an HR btw hahahahhaha xD human resource that's the key there

    And i have a sin hitting on an HR just because he's cute hahahahahahhahahahahah xD

    But i actually tried forgetting about him because i.know what I'm doing is wrong.

    But then, it's like he likes the fact that i like him and that I'm giving him attention as well.

    He likes affirmations. Because I'm good at giving affirmations hahahahaha!

    And he likes the feeling that he's helping me.

    That's why eventhough i can do it, i feel like i should seek some help to him because it makes him feel like he's doing his job lol i don't know.. Hahahahaha!!


    K. Forget about it.

    Joke don't forget about it. Hahaha. That's all. :/ I'm friendzoned. 😂

    The one time i talked with him,

    "i don't wanna moved here. Can you look for a job within this area?"

    "why?"

    "because i 😂 i already built friendships here.. And it's only two months (it's kinda unprofessional my reason i just realized that)

    "but the chance of jobs here in this place is very few."

    "i see. I understand. I think it's okay for me to transfer jobs then.." ( realizing how selfish i am. Ofcourse he's the one finding me a job u know. I shouldn't put some pressure on him)

    I think he doesn't really like me like i like him. I think, he's a virgin, never had a girlfriend and he loves his job more and he wants to be best on his job.

    So my chance is very small. Besides I'm a foreigner and, i always move places, and he's my HR lol xDD

    But i still crush him because he's soooo cute and xD i just love his reactions towards me.

    He's not like a typical playboy or anything you know. He's really a nice and good person.

    Probably I'm attracted because he's kinda opposite of me:
    He takes his job seriously and,
    He got self control and he's more of a thinker xD i mean he's not that Spontaneous and he thinks his actions very well.

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    omg..thank you for the laugh..!

    the16types...... this place just gets weirder and weirder. Its nice to see you plan on being safe though. Keep that up.

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    Quote Originally Posted by wacey View Post
    omg..thank you for the laugh..!

    the16types...... this place just gets weirder and weirder. Its nice to see you plan on being safe though. Keep that up.
    Hahahah. Does it make it weird? Hahhahaha. I'm such a weird person indeed lol xD


    Yessss! I never had sex without condoms u know. See. I'm not that typical SEE

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    Quote Originally Posted by idontgiveaf View Post
    Hahahah. Does it make it weird? Hahhahaha. I'm such a weird person indeed lol xD


    Yessss! I never had sex without condoms u know. See. I'm not that typical SEE
    Oh I know you are a very special person thats for sure.


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    adam probably thinks theyre dicks cause supervision makes him uncomfortable

    also what constitutes being a dick is totally subjective and usually has to do with differing quadral values about what the proper vibe should be. among gammas ILI makes perfect sense, whereas LSE seems like a douchey bro (if we're generalizing), and ESE seems like a spaz and EIE seems pretentious etc etc

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    Quote Originally Posted by wacey View Post
    Oh I know you are a very special person thats for sure.

    Hahahha. Not really special because we're all special. Just weird lol xD and i like being weirddd.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bertrand View Post
    adam probably thinks theyre dicks cause supervision makes him uncomfortable

    also what constitutes being a dick is totally subjective and usually has to do with differing quadral values about what the proper vibe should be. among gammas ILI makes perfect sense, whereas LSE seems like a douchey bro (if we're generalizing), and ESE seems like a spaz and EIE seems pretentious etc etc
    So Bertrand, what's your type? LII/LIE?

    You first seem like a dick to me at first btw xD

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    guess that makes me ILI if we're going by adam and his dicks

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bertrand View Post
    guess that makes me ILI if we're going by adam and his dicks
    Yess fuck this. ILI is an intj mbti equivalent. Wth. my source is wrong.

    I always have this image to remind me wtf is these three letter words. And it's not even accurate *facepalm*


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    Quote Originally Posted by Bertrand View Post
    Holy cow. This table should be on the homepage somewhere. Some of the labels are incorrect though. LSI should be inspector and SLI should be crafter.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bertrand View Post
    the 3rd and 4th functions are from mbti on that one. e.g. ili has ni te fi se

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bertrand View Post
    Wow! That's fucking pretty awesome. Socionics in one place! Thanks! 😘

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    yes its almost all entirely mbti except for the xxx socionics code and ITR. it uses the 4 factor method of typology not the 8. I use it mainly for quick reference but it would be really nice to get the same thing in terms of 8 function model, because the socionics function # and blocks are hard for me to remember

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    Quote Originally Posted by wacey View Post
    Holy cow. This table should be on the homepage somewhere. Some of the labels are incorrect though. LSI should be inspector and SLI should be crafter.
    Oh well the one who typed that is an intuitive. He doesn't chexk the details well. Damn intuitive got lost on his thoughts again xD

    (sorry I've been victimized by sensing -intuition bias)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Number 9 large View Post
    the 3rd and 4th functions are from mbti on that one. e.g. ili has ni te fi se
    Why socionics soo hard and complicated -_-

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    Quote Originally Posted by idontgiveaf View Post
    Why socionics soo hard and complicated -_-
    its not rlly that hard, it's just different

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    Quote Originally Posted by idontgiveaf View Post
    Why socionics soo hard and complicated -_-
    well you can't explain the personality types of complicated creatures like humans with a simple system

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bertrand View Post
    yes its almost all entirely mbti except for the xxx socionics code and ITR. it uses the 4 factor method of typology not the 8. I use it mainly for quick reference but it would be really nice to get the same thing in terms of 8 function model, because the socionics function # and blocks are hard for me to remember
    Yeah such letters like I wonder why is it there's just three letters? Socionics is good but it's not user friendly xD

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    Quote Originally Posted by idontgiveaf View Post
    Yeah such letters like I wonder why is it there's just three letters? Socionics is good but it's not user friendly xD
    i still get confused and need to reference stuff, like what is the 6th function, get IEI EIE backwards, etc. its a lot of code to internalize

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    Quote Originally Posted by idontgiveaf View Post
    Yeah such letters like I wonder why is it there's just three letters? Socionics is good but it's not user friendly xD
    first letter is you first function
    second letter is your 2nd function
    last is the same as MBTI's E vs I

    here are the conversions from MBTI to socionics:
    iNtuition => Intuition
    Sensing => Sensing
    Thinking => Logic
    Feeling => Ethics

    so if we used ILI as an example, we can say his first function is intuition, followed by logic and he is introverted (this makes his first function introverted, and the second extroverted)
    so we get Ni as first function and Te as second function

    I hope this is not confusing

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bertrand View Post
    i still get confused and need to reference stuff, like what is the 6th function, get IEI EIE backwards, etc. its a lot of code to internalize
    Yeah. And reading some socionics stuffs, i kinda relate to some like Te blocked with Ni descriptions.. Rather than Fi blocked with some two letter word description.

    In short it's really hard for me at first - because I'm not familiar with it xD

    So i think time can let us get used to it because i think socionics is a good tool rather than mbti

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    Quote Originally Posted by Number 9 large View Post
    its not rlly that hard, it's just different
    And I'm just not familiar -_-

    I'll just wait to get used to it xD

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    Quote Originally Posted by idontgiveaf View Post
    And I'm just not familiar -_-

    I'll just wait to get used to it xD
    lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by idontgiveaf View Post


    I'm gonna meet my crush tomorrow hihi. He's so cute and kinda i don't know, kill joy?

    Because my p-type boss told me to come tomorrow at 1pm.

    Then he also messaged me that he will be in the office tomorrow so i should come there at 9am.

    Well it's actually not a problem for me since I'm gonna see him first

    Then i said okay.

    Then after that he said sorry that i just can come tomorrow at 1pm hahahah. Fucking annoying joke. Atleast you realized empathy now my crush hihi.

    You should hangout with me more and let's removed that j-ness in you haha.

    I think he's hmmmm
    I don't know he's hard to type actually. -_-

    He's also fucking complicated or I'm just hihi ♡

    Probably he got kinda annoyed at me at first lol

    But after the incident with the pervert he became nicer to me again.

    Okay.. I already know why. Because he obviously doesn't like aggressive girls haha xD

    He wants to be in charge because i kinda see a manly ego to him..

    So, okay hihi!

    Last time we met i didn't hangout with him that much because i wanna get off my little crush for him because there's a possibility that i can move places..

    But since i failed the interview hahahahahah xD i can stay longer hihi ♡

    So i can have a crush with him again. Hihi ♡

    He's just my crush actually because i know i cannot get him. he's kinda hard to get. He's a j-type lol xD

    But i think he kinda likes me too hihi ♡

    Because there's a time that he's meeting me, he is ALL SMILE. like seriously like he cannot take off his smile hahahaha.

    I like him smiling like that hes so cute..

    Then last meeting i met him too, we're actually about to eat a buffet in a company and i called him on phone because i got lost

    Then he told me the way and i have seen it..

    Then i saw him standing outside waiting for me.. Hahahaha!!!

    Is there's meaning on that?

    But i didn't flirt with him that time because you know I'm guarding my feelings to the possibile result if i will be moving new place again..

    So tomorrow,
    #goto first sentence xD
    #loop

    I love you crush. I actually reserve some condoms for you. Hihi. Don't be shy to me, just let it go.. If you just let go then you won't regret it you'll be happier than ever..



    Then last drinking session too, i got drunk and he actually lead me way home until the door of my apartment hihi. I really thought there's something that would happen that time but he's a good person so i shouldn't hope hahahah.

    Then, his way home is actually different but he still went with me on a different direction.

    Then another clue he might also like me:

    He called me that i got an interview in a far far away place.. I told him, okay... But i don't wanna leave this place!
    Then his voice changed, he said i should just do my best.. And then i said thank you.. Then he kinda react differently you know like he's also sounded like he's sad that i will be going else where too..

    My crush is actually a thinking type. And, yeah I'm happy seeing him like a feeler such a cutie hihi ♡

    Well i guess I'm 50% assuming but there's a possibility he also likes me too hahaha.

    And, i also like the fact that he just allow me to be drunk like he's not a killjoy like some guys actually are killjoys that they're telling me to woman up because girls aren't supposed to drink.

    But he, he's like amused when i drink a lot like it's interesting for him that i drink a lot hahahahah!

    Maybe he's my dual.



    So guy's, is my crush my dual?
    you say you have a crush on him but don't want to hang out with him because you may leave, so does it mean you don't want to feel guilty?
    so if we say he is your dual would that be an excuse to hang out with him without feeling guilty?

    from what you said I think you want to be with him but it will make you feel guilty if you left him later, so you want him to make the first move (specially since he took you home when you were drunk so he had a chance, but unfortunately for you he is good) so it won't feel like it is your fault if you left him, but since he is good you think you can use duality as an excuse after all you are socionicly attracted to him

    but to answer your question I don't know he could be your dual as there is nothing prove he isn't ILI, but he could also be your conflictor LII

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    Nr 1 rule of socionics. All your crushes become your dual

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    Quote Originally Posted by Number 9 large View Post
    Nr 1 rule of socionics. All your crushes become your dual
    haha yeah right.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Simo View Post
    you say you have a crush on him but don't want to hang out with him because you may leave, so does it mean you don't want to feel guilty?
    so if we say he is your dual would that be an excuse to hang out with him without feeling guilty?

    from what you said I think you want to be with him but it will make you feel guilty if you left him later, so you want him to make the first move (specially since he took you home when you were drunk so he had a chance, but unfortunately for you he is good) so it won't feel like it is your fault if you left him, but since he is good you think you can use duality as an excuse after all you are socionicly attracted to him

    but to answer your question I don't know he could be your dual as there is nothing prove he isn't ILI, but he could also be your conflictor LII
    I don't even know why i told that. I still crush him.hahahaha..because i think he likes me too!

    Because he's always smiling at me like he's always smiling when I'm around!! He's not like that with anyone you know! Because he's serious and he's not the type to smile everytime! Hihi.

    And earlier hahahahahahahhahahahahhahahahahahahahhahahahahahha !!

    It's about to go home and he told me to send him the report i made.
    I already finished it actually.
    (if he doesn't like me then he'll just get the report straight. But he didn't)
    He asked like, "you can take overtime if you haven't finished your work." xD
    And then he could just get the USB drive but he still told me to transfer it on a different pc and send it as email.
    Then he could just go out after he gave me instructions, but he stayed with me in the room which is unusual because he doesn't treat me like that before u know hahahahaha!!!!!!
    I think he's starting to get a crush on me?
    And he's a J-type. but he's not turned off by my weirdness and unprofessionalism.
    You know, i could just not have a crush on him if i think i have no single chanxe.. But then, omg!! Why is he acting like that on me. He's not like that to anyone haha!
    I'm so special hihi. Jk.
    Well his smile. It looks genuine. why he cannot take off his smile when I'm around hihi ♡
    Dammnnn omg!! I cannot believe it if he really got a crush at me as well!!! Omgggggggggggggg!!!!!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by idontgiveaf View Post
    I don't even know why i told that. I still crush him.hahahaha..because i think he likes me too!

    Because he's always smiling at me like he's always smiling when I'm around!! He's not like that with anyone you know! Because he's serious and he's not the type to smile everytime! Hihi.

    And earlier hahahahahahahhahahahahhahahahahahahahhahahahahahha !!

    It's about to go home and he told me to send him the report i made.
    I already finished it actually.
    (if he doesn't like me then he'll just get the report straight. But he didn't)
    He asked like, "you can take overtime if you haven't finished your work." xD
    And then he could just get the USB drive but he still told me to transfer it on a different pc and send it as email.
    Then he could just go out after he gave me instructions, but he stayed with me in the room which is unusual because he doesn't treat me like that before u know hahahahaha!!!!!!
    I think he's starting to get a crush on me?
    And he's a J-type. but he's not turned off by my weirdness and unprofessionalism.
    You know, i could just not have a crush on him if i think i have no single chanxe.. But then, omg!! Why is he acting like that on me. He's not like that to anyone haha!
    I'm so special hihi. Jk.
    Well his smile. It looks genuine. why he cannot take off his smile when I'm around hihi ♡
    Dammnnn omg!! I cannot believe it if he really got a crush at me as well!!! Omgggggggggggggg!!!!!!!
    do you laugh between every two sentences even irl?
    Also, how do you define J-type? punctuality? organized?

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