So, How to date a dual and do I have one or is duality a myth?

[Bertrand]

It's precisely because she's tiny that Ru is using a magnifying glass to see her

I chose it ironically since that's precisely what I look like next to my tall friends, specially the IEIs.

yeah IEIs are hueg lol

like, really big people

it makes sense when you consider the trends of rising bodyweight around the globe as well as IEI prevalence

if only I could define my height into reality as well as my type! I could join the 6ft IEI master race

Part of that imo is because it's easier for people to believe that the solution to everything is out there somewhere, and if just the right person comes along, then everything will be okay and they'll be happy. It's much harder to take a look at yourself, to take an honest look at your own strengths and weaknesses, and find the solutions to your problems through yourself. So instead of a person's polr being something they learn to recognize and deal with - it becomes an excuse (or a target to attack in others) and instead of their ego fxns being used to help themselves and others, they become nothing but a label, an identity to talk about. It's making everyone else deal with your problems while being unwilling to deal with them yourself. But it can be very hard to face some things about yourself, and even harder (at least for me ha) to accept any kind of help, or even admit when it's needed.

fix myself? more like find my dual, am I rite? that's the lesson of socionics isn't it?