EII-LSE Duality Relations (INFj-ESTj)

[Adam Strange]

FiTe duality is harder than FeTi duality. It's harder for people to work together on relationship issues because the ethical function is more complex and needs more refinement.

Are you saying that spanking them until they submit doesn't work?

[at sirac son of sirac]

Are you saying that spanking them until they submit doesn't work?

With Se types I work with (although seems more with the Se creatives), sometimes I just agree with them because it makes life easier. They can be quite insistent, and if it's not something of huge importance, what's the harm in giving a little to get a little? What can I say then perhaps I've been well spanked.

So yeah, I suppose spanking in not just the metaphorical and even the literal sense can be a fairly effective treatment.

Water boarding works too, of course, so I hear.

[Adam Strange]

With Se types I work with (although seems more with the Se creatives), sometimes I just agree with them because it makes life easier. They can be quite insistent, and if it's not something of huge importance, what's the harm in giving a little to get a little? What can I say then perhaps I've been well spanked.

So yeah, I suppose spanking in not just the metaphorical and even the literal sense can be a fairly effective treatment.

Water boarding works too, of course, so I hear.

What I know is that violence tends to beget violence. It's a good thing my son's mother was raised better than I was and said to me, when she was pregnant and we were discussing discipline, "We're not hitting the kid."

[at sirac son of sirac]

What I know is that violence tends to beget violence. It's a good thing my son's mother was raised better than I was and said to me, when she was pregnant and we were discussing discipline, "We're not hitting the kid."

The truth is that spanking, when done appropriately, is among the best methods of discipline - as backed up by scientific research (I could link this, but why bother getting into a debate).

I don't know about your parents, but I hope your child won't say the same thing about his. (It can surprise me at times when people blame their parents for stuff rather than just accepting they are where they are in life now, and working on themselves as flawed people, should they wish to, just like mom and pop never had all the answers either). And, it's better not to be bitter.