For what it's worth (and sorry for stepping right in the middle of this battleground, I'll let you two keep doing your thing once i'm done) I didn't really see UDP's actions as being worthy of such a judgement ('You sound like a dick').

To me, it depends. What plans did they have together, exactly? For how long have they been planning it? Thoroughly, for about two weeks, or was it more like a two-days-ago-we-decided-to-go-for-a-coffee kind of thing? Why has UDP cancelled the plans? They must've had a good reason to, as well. But I also understand their EII friend's disappointment, as being swooooshed like that isn't really nice either.

Keep on keeping on