The Leveling of Dual Energy

[Eliza Thomason]

This is said of Duals:

The leveling of dual energy. This phenomenon appears almost immediately. The duals should just to be together, just to seat close by, sometimes even without touching each other. The maximum term for leveling of dual energy – 40 minutes (it is a result of investigation) and after that duals renew their energy. It does not depend on the depth of the “energy hole”.

Well, this is so true! I am really experiencing it these past few weeks. I have returned to work as a sub in this new state whereas before I always worked at one district where I was known and I knew the ways of how things are done, and did not have to use my GPS to get there and search around for where I am supposed to park and where is the front door (and which door opens when they buzz you in) and use a map to get down the halls -- etc. So it's been many different schools and towns, and grades all mixed up from pre-K-12, which I chose, to help me be prepared for the next school year. And the kids this time of year are - you know - and its horribly hot - none of these schools are air-conditioned - they all were at my old district. Each day as I drive home I wonder if I am going to be able to keep up this pace? When I did this before in my old school I would pace myself according to my energy and peace - and sometimes I'd work only 3-4 days a week. But now I have my husband, my dual, and yes, he levels my energy. I come home spent, and really, yes, 20 - 40 minutes later I am refreshed, and really its just being in his presence. And then I am thinking, yes, I certainly can do this tomorrow. And then the next day its the same: I feel spent on the way home, and I wonder, "Can I keep this up?", but shortly after being home, I think, "Yes, I can". The "spent" feeling is gone and I am energized again.

This "leveling of dual energy" - its real, and its a good thing.

[Hays]

Thanks @Eliza Thomason for posting this.
Made me think...
How could I have recently sold a house, moved state and left old life including children and grandchild behind and purchased a new home without the presence of my other half implementing plans, taking care of money matters with the banks, making necessary phone calls and other tedious works, providing a calming presence and aiding me to get up and carry on.
Who knows if he's my dual or not but he does help me in renewal of zapped energies!
...Husband mentions that after arriving home after a bad day feeling terrible, that when he's spent time with myself and received some prompting he is refocused and ready to go again.

[Eliza Thomason]

Thanks @Eliza Thomason for posting this.
Made me think...
How could I have recently sold a house, moved state and left old life including children and grandchild behind and purchased a new home without the presence of my other half implementing plans, taking care of money matters with the banks, making necessary phone calls and other tedious works, providing a calming presence and aiding me to get up and carry on.
Who knows if he's my dual or not but he does help me in renewal of zapped energies!
...Husband mentions that after arriving home after a bad day feeling terrible, that when he's spent time with myself and received some prompting he is refocused and ready to go again.

Aw, I love this. And what you described does sound very dual-like. Particularly since you are both getting that "energy-level" from each other. Also because you speak of taking on different tasks, probably that the other is not so inclined to do. So, in my opinion, looks dual-ish! And that has always been the thing that seemed more sure to you, as far as typing, right? Duality. (while being at times less sure about actual types).

[Hays]

Aw, I love this. And what you described does sound very dual-like. Particularly since you are both getting that "energy-level" from each other. Also because you speak of taking on different tasks, probably that the other is not so inclined to do. So, in my opinion, looks dual-ish! And that has always been the thing that seemed more sure to you, as far as typing, right? Duality. (while being at times less sure about actual types).

Ideally husband is my dual as we have been together since I was 15 and married for 30 years.
As for my type, I see a little of myself in most types.
Today I dreamt about a field of flowers and one plant standing out from others in the field. This plant was myself and had flowers unique within the field. It's up to others to interpret if this is a unique plant with different flowers or an odd plant producing non uniform flowers - well that's me.

Many other females to me seem a bit more feminine and less awkward than myself and thus seem to be given more leeway in life somehow so I can't help but lean slightly towards a thinking type for myself. Husband believes as does son that I am likely an NT and if not then an NF type....but hey, type me whatever...I'm just an unusual flower.