@Economist the reason why I ask EIIs about their opinion and advice is because while they are representing the advice and talking, they show an enormous amount of care and emotions towards me, that it gives me power to get healed (mostly psychological issues) and then I can make my own decisions. But in your case solving non-psychological issues like statics etc to me it would probably be because I like hearing about EII's Ne but in the end it sounds a bit unrealistic to actually be applied in reality , and since usually they're my close friend, I somehow feel like I have the right to not do what they have told me to do,since friends wouldn't care about that, but if a stranger gives me advice, since it is not usual for a stranger to give advice, there must be some strong reason behind it, so I pay attention to it. But usually friends give eachother advice without expectations etc. I am not sure about LSE though. Hope your issue with him gets solved.