There does not need to be motives to state how one feels. It is dismissive to have someone state how they feel and to require reasonings for why they feel as they feel. I feel one way. My son feels another way. Each of my daughters and my wife feel other ways. All of society feels other ways.
Sometimes simply stating that you feel a certain way or want a certain thing. Regardless of what is stated in return. And stating that it is how you feel or what you want without reason or rationale. That they are your actual emotions.
People do not need reasons for feelings or rationale for feelings. Their feelings and wants are validated and acknowledged because they are human. No different than any other human. And that is a right which they maintain. And that is a right which others must respect.
It would appear that EIIs invest much time into the feelings of others and their relationships that exist independently of the EII but that the EII does not consider its own emotions related to the self.



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