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    Default For INTPs, INTJs, ISTPs, ISTJs ... 15 Ways You’re Always At Fault For Being The Less Emotional Partner


    "When you’re not an emotional person, having healthy, balanced relationships can be challenging.

    You don’t know how to express your feelings with any real coherence and you don’t want to talk about the deep layers of your “profound” romance. (Ick.) It’s just not appealing to you.

    Your partner, the more sensitive of your twosome, may find these seeming disinterests to be a problem.

    Your lack of outward emotion or evident fiery passion might plant seeds of insecurity, causing him or her to be constantly in a state of emotional uproar, which only makes you all the more confused.

    Your partner thinks you don’t care and you don’t know what you can possibly do to prove otherwise.

    It isn’t that you don’t love this person, you do. You just don’t understand why you need to be constantly up each other’s butts in order to show or prove that.
    You’re in this relationship, aren’t you? Isn’t that enough validation that you, in fact, want to be with this person?

    You don’t like fighting and you have no patience for stupidity. You’re direct.

    You’re not a Goddamn robot; you’re just not mushy, touchy or particularly feely. You’re logical and you do things with a purpose."


    http://elitedaily.com/dating/15-thin...onship/941399/

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    Heh. I've never been the less emotional partner. I'm unfortunately a moody crank from time to time.

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    Sounds like reason #4568743 why I should not be allowed to date.





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    I prefer dating men who are feelers, but they are rare so I end up as the more sensitive one... which I hate.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Milo View Post
    Your partner thinks you don’t care and you don’t know what you can possibly do to prove otherwise.
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    Case of 1D Fe. Honestly even to me it gives me WUT impression. You can make LxI express themselves if you really want to.
    OTOH try 1D Fi and apparently you are just oblivious when it comes to personal feelings. Logic says funny therefore I'm going to make insensitive joke. This is why.. OK even I have limits.
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    Types: maybe, but I thought the things listed in the article rather hinted at something pathological. You know me, could be inaccurate. But that was the first impression I got.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chae View Post
    Types: maybe, but I thought the things listed in the article rather hinted at something pathological. You know me, could be inaccurate. But that was the first impression I got.
    Schizoid Personality Disorder perhaps. I don't relate to a lot of this.

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