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    Quote Originally Posted by Dreymagine View Post
    I've had pretty much the same list of goals for years. I seem hopeless at making and breaking habits.
    It's easier to replace habits by new ones rather than making or breaking them from scratch.

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    Quote Originally Posted by persimmonism View Post
    It's easier to replace habits by new ones rather than making or breaking them from scratch.
    I've seen this tip on countless online articles about how to make/break habits. I'm trying that, have been for a long time, but it hasn't made it any easier tbh.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pirouette View Post
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    Makes sense. Just don’t try it backwards.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dreymagine View Post
    I've seen this tip on countless online articles about how to make/break habits. I'm trying that, have been for a long time, but it hasn't made it any easier tbh.


    Everyday it gets easier, but you have to do it everyday.
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    Quote Originally Posted by EUDAEMONIUM View Post


    Everyday it gets easier, but you have to do it everyday.
    Yeah, that's true.

    And hi Eud!! It's nice to see you around, I thought you were gone 3:

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dreymagine View Post
    I've seen this tip on countless online articles about how to make/break habits. I'm trying that, have been for a long time, but it hasn't made it any easier tbh.
    How about chaining a new habit after one you already do?
    I've had a bit more success with this then the aforementioned, but for little things only so far. Such as making time to moisturize all 20 of my dryass cuticles straight out of the shower. Otherwise I never do it.

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    I never change habits deliberately tbh, I just give up ending habits because it doesn't work. But they fade away when I'm mentally sound and when I remove the emotional baggage chaining me to these habits

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    my goals...
    really short term - start exercising regularly & eating better
    short term (a year) - switch into web development
    medium term (5 years or so) - try & get database, network, and system admin certifications, and follow it up with job experience
    long term - work as a cloud engineer for some large company

    So I try & wake up early & read for 2-3 hours every day to make these things happen. If I can go the gym too ... I'm doing really well.
    No room in there for a relationship, but that is a sacrifice I have chosen to make.

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    I dont share my goals with people, even irl.

    I guard them and nourish them and go after them.

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    Finish this design I've been working on for like 3 days. I'm designing a contemporary building and decorating the interior. I'm pleased so far. I'm currently adding lighting/shadows. I'll more than likely design my own furniture for it as well. I'm thinking of making an entire branding kit out of it, actually, since it's a commercial building...web banner, logo, ad styling, product packaging, signage, and so forth. Maybe some company will hire me on if I make several of these kits and put them in a portfolio.

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    Or, maybe an LIE will team up with me to do the more Te-like aspects of a business, and we will run away together and have our own successful business of some sort, be rich, get married, have babies, and live happily ever after.

    Ok, well, dreaming was fun.
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    Well, i don't know how to be well, so I don't really have any goals.
    I'm not only psychologically disturbed, I'm also QueeferSutherlandJeffersonianSecessionist87@sucksd ick.com


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    Waiting in between the axis of time for a life calling. I'm just hoping that by the time life finally decides to call, I will still be able to hear it...

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    Earn and save up a lot of money, become an absolute physical specimen, find a way to get myself killed. That's the dream.

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    Get in shape, get my own apartment and car, skate more, travel, stop hating myself, and maybe put a baby in someone that I can tolerate for the rest of my life in 3-4 years
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    Getting rich by winning the lottery.

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