1. Become more fit, self-confident and hotter.
2. Try not to be so stuck on myself. Before you say 'BuT hEaLtHy NaRcCiSsM iS gOoD fOr YoU!' I mean... stuck on myself in ways that make me depressed and stuck. Though I am naturally very introverted and it can be hard not being a narcissist sometimes. I sorta envy those masculine ST types that can just totally project their energy externally into a piece of plywood or something, and selflessly love that plywood....instead of emotionally warping it to fit some unmet childhood need haha. Which brings me to ....
3. I have an excellent imagination, I just need to put it to use better.