For the most part, when I communicate with a Si possessing or Si valuing person, they always object to me about missing on the details, specially SLI, it is not as if I do it on purpose, it just doesn't seem important to me while the same work will be done without the details, in shorter time. So I don't think that reminding the LIE to pay attention to detail, will make any positive change. They will either dislike themselves or dislike the person who is forcing them, or both
About communication I know exactly what you are saying. I have a bad habit that I judge people's efficiency based on some things they say, and then they have to do something that really impresses me afterwards, to change my mind about them.
For example if someone has talked 3 paragraphs but hasn't made a single point or said something useful, I automatically stop listening to them and start thinking about something else. This happens quite often with ESEs, EIEs and SEIs.
And "useful" in the LIE dictionary also has different meaning.
I would suggest that you be as concise as possible and put a lot of information in each sentence. also even though we LIEs communicate with people on close psychological distances, we greatly dislike someone being nosy about our personal lives
The thing about ESI translation is ESI- LIE dyad has a very "us" "our friends" attitude and they wanna know if you are an "us" or "them". Also I read in LIE description "never does a person of this type say explain this to me, they say give me the facts and tell me what needs to be done" which is exactly true. When someone explains things to me I often automatically feel that they want me to see it their way, while I want to figure it out my way, do it by myself. Tell me what needs to be done, what has been done, but not how to do it, or how you did it (specially in detail).
I think overall LIEs seem much scarier than they really are. I have been told by my friends that at first they thought I was a highly selective straight forwards arrogant asshole but then when they get closer they see that they were wrong. I can be easy to hang out with and don't judge people whom I respect, since I know the person has put effort in winning my respect.