Quote Originally Posted by Minde View Post
Oh, sorry I wasn't clearer, it was a completely separate guy who said that to me. I was affirming Bullets' assertion that I don't compartmentalize.

I do find this guy (the one the thread's about) attractive, for the most part.
I got that part, which is why my reply is in two parts.
How far away is the attractive guy? Meeting at least once a week makes a huge difference.

Personally, I can go 3-4 days without contact or thinking too much about someone I like, but then give them a lot of attention when I do see them.