Quote Originally Posted by Minde View Post
Communication has dropped significantly over the last several days, so it all may be a moot point anyway.

No, I don't compartmentalize sex at all. A little while ago I had a guy demean me because I wasn't ready to kiss him yet and I had implied I might not be for awhile. He called me archaic and essentially rules-bound, but it wasn't about rules at all for me. I simply was not feeling safe or close enough to him. Plus he wasn't super attractive to me...
Well, if he wasn't super-attractive to you, then there is no reason to worry about it.
Don't let the guy push you into something. A healthy LSE won't do that. Or if he tries, you should be easily able to lead him to the correct path. That's what EII's do with LSE's.


Quote Originally Posted by Minde View Post
...of course now I'm going to be wracked with "what exactly pushed him away?!" Not the "you're archaic" guy, the Te-y guy.
Maybe his phone died. Maybe he's busy. Maybe he's not sure he even wants to be in a relationship with anyone. Without positive feedback, it is impossible to know.
Long distance relationships are increasingly difficult with the cube of the distance, which is why most people marry within their zip code.