Quote Originally Posted by Cosmic Teapot View Post
Because we discussed the cause for my bad mood over and over and she would repeatedly deny that there are any problems.
Imagine you sit there with a visibly broken foot and your mother looks at you and asks "So. What's the problem? I see nothing wrong".
A broken foot is an exaggeration obviously but the point is she should have known by now. It's visible. I have dark circles under my eyes since weeks. Any empathic human being who is not deliberately blind to this would have seen this.
And nah - talking to neighbors doesn't (/didn't) solve anything. Children are precious. They need to have their freedom to be awake the whole night. /s

edit: What I'm trying to say is - I've seen Fe-Polr's prefer to be "just understood" without having to explain their feelings to anyone.
Dunno, to me a broken foot is very different from dark circles under the eyes. It wouldn't have been obvious to me that this is causing the bad mood (since the reason for it could be something else). But if I'm explicitly told that it's a big problem for the person specifically, I try to keep that in mind.

As for the Fe PoLR stuff, I don't think it's realistic to expect people to always know the reason for a mood.