Enneagram Attachment Type: 3 6 9

[Milo]

in video : )





"People with the attachment object relation tend to have a sense of contentment that their needs (with people, situation, thinks) are being met. Their sense of self is based on being deeply attached to things perceived as good. To attach themselves, these types adapt their ways to be consistent with important people or things.

3: Threes adapt their self-image to be consistent with the expectations and values of others. Threes are aware of what is valued by their friends, family, coworkers, etc. and they strive to attain those values. That way, they can receive the attention and validation from others. Their sense of self is based on an attachment to their self-image of a successful, valuable person.

6: Sixes adapt their belief systems to be consistent with those of an authority figure or system. Sixes doubt their own ability to cope with the world, so they seek security through another person or system. Their sense of self is based on an attachment or association and loyalty to important people or groups.

9: Nines adapt (or accommodate) their own wants and opinions to be consistent with those of others. Nines want peace, so why rock the boat? By going along with others, they can attain the harmony they seek. Nines base their sense of self on their attachment to their idealized (internalized harmonious) view of the world."

[Chae]

Thanks for this.

[Milo]

Thanks for this.

this video was uncomfortable to watch like a reflection of how I'm with my friends sometimes xD

I'm still toying around with being 6 or 9

[Stellafera]

REASONS WHY TRIPLE ATTACHMENT IS THE BEST TRITYPE

• all the enneagram authors say we're the healthiest so let's just start with that
• our lines of integration/disintegration actually form a logical and stable loop that you don't need a map to figure out
• your issues get to be THE ISSUES OF ALL OF HUMANITY not some bullshit minor shit
• you don't care about pointless shit like "being yourself" your sense of self can change like whatever super adaptable wait this might be a drawback
• jack of all trades, pls nerf
• nobody will tell you your tritype is too common because its the scrub tritype wait this also might be a drawback
• 

[Stellafera]

Twenty One Pilots has kind of a triple attachment ethos (alternates between a 6 perspective and a 9 one; 3 is definitely the least valued)

Type 9 mixed with 6





Type 6 mixed with 9





Type 3 Mixed With Both

Not much in terms of whole songs, just some bits from lyrics

From "Lane Boy"
Regardless, all these songs I’m hearing are so heartless
Don’t trust a perfect person and don’t trust a song that’s flawless, honest
There’s a few songs on this record that feel common
I’m in constant confrontation with what I want and what is poppin'

From "Message Man"
A loser hides behind
A mask of my disguise
And who I am today
Is worse than other times

[Stellafera]

[Pookie]

Nah, 629 better

[Stellafera]

Nah, 629 better

first you slam Batman, now you slam 639

is there nothing sacred to you

[Pookie]

first you slam Batman, now you slam 639

is there nothing sacred to you

Yo, spiderman is 629. Hes the sacred one.

[Pookie]

Side note, never put thought into it at all. But im 629, and 629 is the good samaritan archtype, so obviously its the best.

[Stellafera]

Yo, spiderman is 629

oh shit you're right

edit: at least he's a 6w7

[Pookie]

If we can agree on spiderman being so/sx, then I am spiderman.

[Stellafera]

If we can agree on spiderman being so/sx, then I am spiderman.

Don't see any reason why he wouldn't be.

Congrats