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    Post What kind of advice would you give to each Enneagram Types?

    Enneatypes are the most dominant expression out of all the entire parts of personalities that we all have within ourselves, so you could say that those advice that you give to the other enneatypes are also advice that you give to yourself.

    1: You don't have to be perfect at all things. You don't even have to be "moral", at least not all the time.
    2: You don't have to be helping all those people.
    3: You don't need to be doing all those things or be good at them to have self-esteem. You only need to be good at a few things or certain things.
    4: You don't have to feel sorry for yourself to gain sympathy or compassion.
    5: You don't have to know all those things before you take action. Just do it and let it go.
    6: You don't have to fear others, the world or life. There's nothing to be afraid of. You can trust others.
    7: You don't have to be doing all those things.
    8: You don't have to be angry all the time and fighting against others to prove a point.
    9: It's ok to create conflict and disturbances with others.

    Damn, I don't even know if they were actually advice.

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    Those are pretty good Sir

    To go one step further, I use the method of "allowing". Telling the enneatypes that their behavior is ok instead of trying to make them work against themselves so they can integrate.

    1: It's okay to be idealistic. That way, you can become an imaginative, opportunistic person.
    2: It's okay to feel needed. That way, you can move towards becoming a special person.
    3: It's okay to feel like you have to look outside of yourself for assurance. That way, you become community-oriented.
    4: It's okay to feel flawed. That way, you can come to see what's righteous and what is not.
    5: It's okay to fear you're inadequate. That way, you can become a protector of others.
    6: It's okay to fear insecurity (and fear itself). That way, you can seek harmony.
    7: It's okay to fear like you're missing out. That way, you can become a knowing and observant person.
    8: It's okay to cover up your vulnerability. That way, you can love others unconditionally without chaining them to you.
    9: It's okay to avoid loss. That way, you can become more pragmatic to make merging in the current moment happen.

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