Here's a subjective rule on relations but tell me this isn't kind and considerate. I think that what the ESE did in this story was mean since the LSEs was rushing and organizing and helping them and the ESE's emotionally charged reaction was uncalled for
So one LSE has an ESE living with the son rent free and the last time LSE was over at the ESE's she helped them pack to move and asked the ESE to do some tasks. The ESE got super lazy and did not move from the couch. LSE gave her two warnings about dishes in the sink that needed to be washed and pack and when the ESE didn't do them the LSE tossed them in the trash. The ESE held a resentment and when the son was talking to the LSE the ESE screamed out "I don't want that bit** here so loud to make sure the LSE heard it. The LSE lamented about being called that to me. Of course at this point the LSE doesn't think or feel highly of the ESE and the mood swings of ESE do resemble bipolar. The LSE though is revising this emotionally and it makes her sad being called a B but she wanted things done on her base function "clean up so my son can move out"




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(as per tcaudilllg)
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