I agree with you in a general sense, I do not think they are aggressive with people. I do think they can be in certain situations though(as should anyone). I framed my above comment wrong, I really meant to suggest it's incredibly rare for them to be pushy(family and spouse are extremely close relationships compared to common relationships like acquaintance and friendship). I do not understand why in almost all ESI articles they are portrayed as strict and pushy, it's bullshit and has probably caused so many people confusion.
And this article is definitely soft in comparison to the uncovered articles. I think the IEE uncovered article is brutal ha