EII-IEE long term relationship (INFj and ENFp mirror)

[Shytan]

Anyone who's EII and has been with an IEE in a long term relationship? I know an EII and IEE who have been dating for more than a year and would like to know the pros and cons and all that. Just curious

[shining]

I guess in pro, sharing the same valued function, so little conflict; in cons, more or less weak on the same aspect (Te/Si). Someone will have to be willing to take care of these aspects even if not competent on it.
Activity and duality are better overall (even semi duality sometimes, but more for rationals though)

[Beautiful sky]

I love my IEE friends and I was interested in an IEE guy twice. One was too far away to date and the other was destined to be my friends (I love him). I can see myself living in the long term with an IEE. My future mother in law is IEE and I love her.

That was all very positive I realize. They would be great companions and friends but not sure how it would work out sexually

[Nehtaro]

^_^

[Beautiful sky]

My mom is EII, and I'm pretty sure my last ex was EII--didn't work out. Mirror relations are good for understanding, difficult for living together, similar to what shining and Maritsa said--very positive as friends, living together and relying on each other changes things. I would rank duality, activity, and also semi-dual, mirage, and benefit over mirror for relationships.

They should ask about LSE and IEE relationship My IEE friend stinks up the house when she cooks fish (which SLI wouldn't mind) but the LSE is harsh and sensitive to smells as well as not a fan of stinky fish being cooked in the house of the LSE gets very harsh with the IEE accusing them of being home all day and yet not cooking a meal for them and cleaning up after themselves etc. The LSE slams the doors open in open protest and bitches hahah

[Shytan]

How WAS your relationship with your ex?

[Beautiful sky]

Dostoevsky - Huxley (EII-IEE)
@applejacks @Eliza Thomason @Raver @anndelise and other IEE

One day my friend Nina (type Huxley) was returning to her house from the lake. With us was the two year old son of the governess, Fedka. When we went down the path to the main road, Fedka started complaining, fell behind and started to point in the opposite direction, "Go there!"

We did a lot of coaxing, tries to lift him up and carry him. Nothing worked. He would run back a few steps, sit down and cry.

"How can we trick him?" - I began to wonder. And then, as if hearing my thoughts, Nina took Fedka by his hands and started walking in circles. Fedka went silent, the game was obviously to his liking. I, meanwhile, realizing what her plan was, quickly moved back up the road a few steps further than they were. When she put Fedka on his feet and his head stopped spinning, Nina asked him where do we go now. Fedka immediately found my eyes, turned around and confidently pointed in the opposite direction: "There!" Thus, we have successfully solved this problem.

Both women have ethics of relations as their strong function, so both are looking for a way to avoid coercing the child. But if Dostoevsky is only thinking about it on the 1st channel, then Huxley is acting on it on the 2nd channel.

Mirror relationships can be quite comfortable, if both partners are ethical types and, regardless of the circumstances, mutually seek harmonization. Here is an example of such a pair

[Chae]

Both have to overuse their HA Can be pro because it increases perceived self-development.

[Rebelondeck]

I witnessed an interesting interaction between an IEE who attended a party at his EII sister's home. The brother literally preached to everyone in the room including the sister to the point of uncomfortableness; the sister was seething although not overtly, and quietly in a reserved tone apologized to each guest afterward saying to ignore everything her brother had said. She also implied without saying many words that he was a complete idiot but she felt that she had to invite him due to pressure from other family members......

a.k.a. I/O

[applejacks]

Dostoevsky - Huxley (EII-IEE)
@applejacks @Eliza Thomason @Raver @anndelise and other IEE

One day my friend Nina (type Huxley) was returning to her house from the lake. With us was the two year old son of the governess, Fedka. When we went down the path to the main road, Fedka started complaining, fell behind and started to point in the opposite direction, "Go there!"

We did a lot of coaxing, tries to lift him up and carry him. Nothing worked. He would run back a few steps, sit down and cry.

"How can we trick him?" - I began to wonder. And then, as if hearing my thoughts, Nina took Fedka by his hands and started walking in circles. Fedka went silent, the game was obviously to his liking. I, meanwhile, realizing what her plan was, quickly moved back up the road a few steps further than they were. When she put Fedka on his feet and his head stopped spinning, Nina asked him where do we go now. Fedka immediately found my eyes, turned around and confidently pointed in the opposite direction: "There!" Thus, we have successfully solved this problem.

Both women have ethics of relations as their strong function, so both are looking for a way to avoid coercing the child. But if Dostoevsky is only thinking about it on the 1st channel, then Huxley is acting on it on the 2nd channel.

Mirror relationships can be quite comfortable, if both partners are ethical types and, regardless of the circumstances, mutually seek harmonization. Here is an example of such a pair

i love everything about this!

Also, I need more EIIs in my life.

[Beautiful sky]

i love everything about this!

Also, I need more EIIs in my life.

So we trick people into doing thing our way instead of forcing

[applejacks]

So we trick people into doing thing our way instead of forcing

We're like brain ninjas!

[Beautiful sky]

We're like brain ninjas!

We'll think of all kinds of ways