Read that somewhere
Read that somewhere
Last edited by Shytan; 07-17-2017 at 08:13 AM.
It's difficult to say that they are generally attracted to each other. They would show (=act out, they're sensory) their attraction with Se, but often only when energized first through Fe suggestive. Everything sounds like an individual case here, or am I mistaken? And is it really an LSI and not some SLI type? If you like, use a closer description of this LSI behavior so we can help![]()
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Yes because LSI are ST. They are strong willed and protective just like LSE. There are common mannerisms but I love my duals because they are more compartmentaling of time and they take up a lot to do.
The two LSI that were attracted to me asked me out to eat and they are quiet but they'll call you and want to see you.
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Dual type(as per tcaudilllg)
Enneagram 2w1sw(1w9) helps others to live up to their own standards of what a good person is and is very behind the scenes in the process.
Tritype 1-2-6 stacking sp/sx
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
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Dual type(as per tcaudilllg)
Enneagram 2w1sw(1w9) helps others to live up to their own standards of what a good person is and is very behind the scenes in the process.
Tritype 1-2-6 stacking sp/sx
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
I think they ARE generally attracted to one another because they are Superego partners, so there's some kind of pull toward each other. How does the Fe suggestive work in this case though?![]()
I agree. They are pretty quiet but there's a mystery about them
Last edited by Shytan; 07-17-2017 at 08:14 AM.
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Dual type(as per tcaudilllg)
Enneagram 2w1sw(1w9) helps others to live up to their own standards of what a good person is and is very behind the scenes in the process.
Tritype 1-2-6 stacking sp/sx
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
That's actually kind of awkwardSo there's no direct initiation, like:"I like you" or something. It's kind of like playful flirting then?
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Dual type(as per tcaudilllg)
Enneagram 2w1sw(1w9) helps others to live up to their own standards of what a good person is and is very behind the scenes in the process.
Tritype 1-2-6 stacking sp/sx
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
Oh well. How healthy do you think Superego relations are though? From your POV, that is, because I've read contradictory Socionics posts on Superego relations.
1. Why on earth would you want to be with an LSI?
2. They are common among fast marriages and eventual divorces.
3. I would look to date an LSE and when he falls in love with you he will tell you that he loves you nearly every day and you will have no doubts of a man's love for you as LSEs stand on solid ground.
4. Sex with LSI is not good.
5. Their Ne polr and sometimes Se suspicion will annoy you but they do treat people kindly with good manners but even if LSEs don't treat their closest with enough love since they do blow up on them you ignore outburst of emotions and can move past it instead of further aggravating them and the situation.
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Dual type(as per tcaudilllg)
Enneagram 2w1sw(1w9) helps others to live up to their own standards of what a good person is and is very behind the scenes in the process.
Tritype 1-2-6 stacking sp/sx
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
okay
Last edited by Shytan; 07-17-2017 at 08:15 AM.
C-EII-INFj 4w3 Sx/sp 479
Yes I've had sex with an LSI and they are all about the intensity or heightened sensation approach whereas LSE caress, kiss, take their time to enjoy, they go slow and try different things when they feel like it like "I haven't done this is a while" the Si gets them to stay connected to your feelings and their internal sensations.
I can understand infatuation and I can also understand how you would be so annoyed by a compulsive flirting LSEs I know that once in a relationship LSEs tend not to do that when you tell them how that makes you feel.
LSI look attractive because of that formality and restraint. Some LSEs can be the same way... very socially restrained. It's just a matter of you telling them and seeing how they react to your morals. I would say in a friendly way "you know I'm looking out for you when I say that what you are doing is inappropriate as well as unbecoming and it makes you look bad" ithis demonstrates that you are being a friend and getting his back and it adjusts his external approach so there you will fix him
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Dual type(as per tcaudilllg)
Enneagram 2w1sw(1w9) helps others to live up to their own standards of what a good person is and is very behind the scenes in the process.
Tritype 1-2-6 stacking sp/sx
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
I honestly think that LSIs trump LSEs in terms of outward behaviour. LSIs are way less openly flirty, and are quiet and more polite. I know for a fact that most of them are sexually promiscuous but I feel like they have this need to be loved? And the way they act around people they like is a whole other feeling, because they're suddenly upbeat and kind of affectionate. And shy at the same time... It's so cute. I feel like with LSEs, it's hard to feel special because he'll treat you like any other girl he's been flirting with. And being in a relationship with him and telling him to change would make me feel like I'm kind of limiting him? I don't believe people change, so he'd probably do it low-key.
Have you dated an LSE? Was he a flirt?
C-EII-INFj 4w3 Sx/sp 479
My boyfriend is LSE. I would condone his flirting privately if he did it in front of me. He doesn't want to lose me because he knows in his heart how different I am from everyone else he's ever dated. We match sexually, I let him lead our sensory world (as in we will go eat what he wants, he decorated the place in his own taste, etc) he does most of the chores around the house although I'm very good at this. He appreciates my patience and ability to remain calm when he gets upset and reacts. He also likes that I don't yank him emotionally and make him upset. I like when he schedules relaxing time when he announces "it's relaxing time". I like that when he fixes something he does it by the book as in he makes sure he doesn't ruined the warranty on his car and he knows the laws of the land, although he will find ways around them even if he points when others violate them. He is attached to family as I am and he has very few friends although he is a wishful thinker and says others are "friends" protective guarded doesn't trust others easily. He has a few hobbies mostly dynamic riding his motorcycle and dirt off-roading. He just wants peace in his surroundings and he wants others to love and accept him.
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Dual type(as per tcaudilllg)
Enneagram 2w1sw(1w9) helps others to live up to their own standards of what a good person is and is very behind the scenes in the process.
Tritype 1-2-6 stacking sp/sx
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
Oh my GodDuality in actual real life! He sounds awesome really. How long have you two been dating?
I'm going on a dual search now![]()
C-EII-INFj 4w3 Sx/sp 479
It wasn't always this way for us. There were several times that I wanted to break up with him and I would have done it swiftly. He was terrible in the beginning and every other day I wanted to walk away. I had met other duals who were prepared to be in a relationship with me but he got a whiff of Socionics and I compared myself to his SEE ex girlfriend who he had a lot of trouble with. LSE are slow slowwww to recognize their feelings.
LSE slogan "you can't achieve perfection by rushing "
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Dual type(as per tcaudilllg)
Enneagram 2w1sw(1w9) helps others to live up to their own standards of what a good person is and is very behind the scenes in the process.
Tritype 1-2-6 stacking sp/sx
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
Don't steal my dual![]()
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Dual type(as per tcaudilllg)
Enneagram 2w1sw(1w9) helps others to live up to their own standards of what a good person is and is very behind the scenes in the process.
Tritype 1-2-6 stacking sp/sx
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
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Dual type(as per tcaudilllg)
Enneagram 2w1sw(1w9) helps others to live up to their own standards of what a good person is and is very behind the scenes in the process.
Tritype 1-2-6 stacking sp/sx
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
Oops I read LSE :/
Well I can still steal her dual though![]()
J/k lol.
C-EII-INFj 4w3 Sx/sp 479
This thread has had 24 posts without a single LSI response.
First post, I could use some clarification from you guys and I'm tired of waiting for it.
Most of the LSIs I know are 3Se-sub, the especially playful, fit, frisky ones with stiff backs and perfectly proportionate faces (at least in youth). So are the majority of the LSIs I've seen post on here. Following question is for you:
Do you actually find EIIs interesting?!Not on the condition that we actually get along, just if your thoughts on us ever advance in a non-platonic direction. I can never understand it correctly. The one time I heard an LSI-3Se female discuss the specific attraction between herself and EII-1Nes (the chubby, somewhat logically erratic ones that are easily provoked to laughter but conversely become quite emotional when you spend too much time with them) she claimed to have no attraction toward them, that it was one-sided. But I am well aware that in the context of superego relations I may well be misinterpreting her words, that "attraction" does not mean the same thing for both types. Perhaps "respect" is more accurate a word in your perception? Clearly you find something interesting about us since many of you continue pursuing all kinds of opportunities with us even though you know collaboration with us never is the most dynamic or simple. You seem to like it as well. So I bid you tell me if my hopes for something mutual are legit or not, because I do not think it is wise for me to put myself out there if I am going to run into the same curb many others have due to misinterpretation. That is all. I promise I will do my best to understand you all correctly, but I never promised that I won't get offended and subsequently never respond to this thread again
. But I will nevertheless like it very much for you all to contribute your thorough opinion as you see fit.
Thanks - a curious EII
LSIs don't deserve EIIs.
Eh? Openly flirtatious LSEs? I guess I know of one old LSE who is sometimes flirtatious toward his wife, but only lighthearted teasing; nothing that would be deemed PDA.
Doesn't everyone?
I've thought of several LSEs, and none are flirts. SEEs are usually the flirtiest. IEIs, EIEs, SLEs, ILEs, IEEs, and ESEs can be flirts. But I'd also say different types flirt in different ways. (I don't know enough on the subject to point out differenced or compare dichotomies.
I guess the flirtiest I get is to smile in a certain way when someone else says something that could be flirtatious. But that's just a way to ignore it without seeming rude; I don't actively encourage it.
I might have initiated a flirt at some point in the past, but if so I didn't bother to remember.
Yay.
Okay, this I'll admit.
Okay, I thought of a way an EII and LSE might flirt. I was thinking of a kind of teasing flirting I've seen in others. But I think LSE/EII would be more like: "I like your dog." "I like your hat." "I like your leash." "Thanks. It goes with my dog." "My hat goes with my head." "Nice head." "Really? I was thinking of getting a new one."
It could also be a regular conversation, so there would have to be something to the facial expressions and the tone of voice to make it different. But it would require 1-1 focus; I don't see how one person could flit between flirting with one person and another, or how one could accomplish flirtation in just a few seconds.
(If anyone who's observed the flirting of various types would be generous enough to make a chart or list of their observations, I'd like to see that.)
There are some really great EIIs who would make fantastic friends, but I've never even given a second look at any EII in a romantic sense. That is just my own personal experience, and clearly is not true for all LSIs or this thread probably wouldn't even exist. I have never had an attraction to any of them, but I'm also a straight female who would only be looking at the male EIIs anyway. I could see how the females might have some appeal to a male LSI, but I can't speak for them or anyone else but myself.