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Instinctual stacking in relation to Hidden Agenda
Hello. So I'm an EII with So/Sx instinctual stacking. But eiis have introverted sensing hidden agenda which manifests most likely as Self-preserved instinct (Sp),so how does this affect my behaviour as a So/Sx? Confused
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Very good question 
Self-preservation is about having resources that back up your pure survival. Cash, job, home.
Si is a bodily, aesthetic perception that looks for what is pleasant and beneficial for health, it avoids disturbance.
So it's not a paradox to be SP-last and having a Si HA, it does not contradict and affect behavior. The HA is not too strong in the first place, simply overemphasized when tapped into.
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Yeah that makes sense. Thank you!
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As @Chae pointed out, Si and self-pres are not, by definition, equivalent. However, I believe they are strongly positively correlated, so the rest of my post will assume that they are almost the same and that it is weird for an EII so/sx to supposedly value Si and yet be self-pres last.
I'm also EII so/sx. I think the main way this affects us is this: generally an EII would like when someone uses Si or he would even like using it himself. In particular, the EII should see it as another charming aspect of his dual, LSE, even though it is not the focal charming point (which is Te). I personally find Si in my close LSE friends quite tedious. Stop being a baby, man, it's not that cold. Stop letting your pickiness about food impact the group dynamic. That kind of thing. And while I appreciate when anyone does anything for me, Si comforts are very low on my list of what I'm actively looking for to be provided to me by friends or a significant other. I'd say I want my LSE friends' demonstrative Se more than I want their Si.
By contrast, my EII sx/sp friends arrange their living spaces very pleasantly and can also be (needlessly, from my POV) picky about food to the detriment of social interactions.
More generally, I think EII so/sx are easy to be mistyped/have some contradictions/are somewhat less stereotypical of their types. So/sx feels very Fe to some typologists, and can also make you come off as more extraverted than you actually are due to your love of groups/communities.
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I could say that I also arrange my living spaces quite pleasantly and my Si HA almost always plays a role in how I want to appear to others or my poor body image and all that. However, I'm still So/sx. Could you state more examples of EII So/sx behaviour that would be different from an EII with self-preservation instinct first or second?

C-EII-INFj 4w3 Sx/sp 479
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The sleeping beauty
Ni= sx>sp>so
Ne = so>sx>sp
Fi = sx>sp>so
Fe = so>sx>sp
Te = so>sp>sx
Ti = sp>sx>so
Se = sx>so>sp
Si = sp>sx>so
But overall HA has nothing to do with instincts..
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