I think in a very simple way, the SEE will probably be more likeable to a wider variety of people than SLE is. Often SLEs will do fucked up things with only IEIs defending them because they are attracted to the specific SLE in question. It's like you know what they are doing is wrong, but they are hot and protect your weak points so good you kinda can't help but overlook it. lol. =/

SLEs often come across as chummy and emotional-like, (but maybe superficially so) and not really strong logical types, because their Te is demonstrative, not egoic. So I can see the confusion... but basically I'd say SEEs are better at getting more people to like them or something, whereas an SLE - everybody kinda ends up hating their guts except for their IEI who just wrote a love letter to them in prison.