Quote Originally Posted by Reyne View Post
He notices me too and tries to get very personal;
I keep him emotionally distant;
He continues trying to get very personal in a way that seems suspicious to me;
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He doesn't understand/wants to undersand and asks something or tells something very personal and stupid...
This sounds very Fi. Fi is very aware of psychological distances, and being Se leading would make him proactive in trying to bridge such distances. Fi especially tries to get closer to others via personal disclosures. I don't think that is how SLEs get closer to other people, but an SLE should feel free to correct me, obviously.

I'm not generally well practiced in distinguishing SEEs and SLEs though--I don't know many of them, and I only have a good handle of identifying types of which I know many people. I actually came here looking for insight into figuring out an SxE I know.

Quote Originally Posted by summerprincess View Post
ESxp guys are not that dramatic in my experience. I hate dramatic guys and I have gotten along pretty well with SEE/SLE.
Isn't it possible that you just like your duals/semi-duals? Perhaps SEEs and SLEs are producing the same general behavior, but this behavior leads OP to describe them in this way, but you simply would never have described their original behavior in this way. Then it's still possible for OP to perceive true SxEs to be this dramatic, while you do not.

Quote Originally Posted by summerprincess View Post
I have issues telling the difference between SEE and SLE but I feel like SEE is more likely to get in fights/lose their temper and is probably less cerebral. SLE is more likely to try to argue themselves out of a situation using their own brand of logic. Also I think SLEs care about rules and social standards; the SEE guys I know tend not to care so much.
I know an LSI who is prone to getting into fights (the most prone out of everyone I know), so I am not sure that SEE is more likely than SLE to get into fights.

I also balk at labeling SEE as less cerebral. Perhaps they are less cerebral in the sense that they are not as interested in knowledge for its own sake as their Logical counterparts, but their Te HA could make them very enthusiastic about cerebral topics and do a lot of cerebral things for the sake of their overall goals (i.e., maybe they don't have cerebral motivations but can produce very cerebral behavior). It seems very dependent on the individual.