Weird. Carefree… but also uptight when it comes to things that are important to me.
What do you study or do for a living? How did you come to do that? What do you like or dislike about it?
I was studying illustration but then decided to take a very long break from school because I wasn't feeling the passion for it much anymore. Now I work as a server. It’s not bad save for my crazy boss. I'll go back to school soon enough.
What are your values, and why?
Honesty and fairness. I don’t want any more bullshit piling up in my life. Been through enough of that shit *lol*
What else do you do on a daily basis? What are your interests and hobbies? Why do you do them?
Besides working I usually just read or sing or draw… nap. When my son is over, I switch to mom mode and it’s quite a trip cuz it’s like I’ve turned completely opposite (meaning I actually get out and do more concrete things).
Describe your relations with family and friends. What do you like and dislike about them?
I’m not very close to my family or even friends for that matter. Only a select few know me very well, and even then it’s just like two. What I like about my family is how everyone is pretty much “this is how i am take it or leave it”. No one tries to be polite to one another. It’s the same with my best friend and boyfriend too. We all pretty much just say what’s on our mind. I don’t really know what I dislike about anyone besides for the fact that my mom talks too much sometimes and my sister has no sense of boundaries whether it be physical or communication-wise.
What do you look for in friends? In romantic relationships?
For friends, I usually look for similar humor. If I feel comfortable with you, then that already gives me a greenlight to be more open. Whether or not things progress is up to the other person. This also goes the same for relationships-- but if at any moment I start feeling like… it’s not working out, I’ll just quietly distance myself bit by bit. It’s really important for me to feel 100% comfortable with my partner and if I ever feel like I have to hold back something… and it's taken way too long for me to drag it out-- I don’t see how it’ll work out in the future. I want to be completely and feel instantly open to them and would like to be treated the same way. There are special circumstances of course, but yeah
What conflicts have you encountered recently with other people? Why did they happen? Which kinds seem to happen on a regular basis?
Conflicts only arise whenever misunderstandings are afoot, which hasn't occurred as much as before (thank goodness). I really do not get along with bossy, direct people though. I end up just doing the opposite of what they tell me to do just to get on their nerves. I know, I'm terrible
How would your friends describe you?
Open minded? Selectively social
What do people generally see as your strengths? What do you like about yourself?
That I’m very nice. I guess I like the fact that I first think in other points of view first before acting like an asshole to anyone. And that I hold the door for people.
What are your weaknesses? What criticism do you often face from others? What do you dislike about yourself?
I hold grudges. People always tell me I’ll never move forward if I don’t forgive someone. Which is true. But eh. What I most dislike about myself though is how I’m so unmotivated to doing anything… it’s not that the task itself is hard for me to do, i’m just lazy as fuck
In what areas of life can you manage well on your own? In what areas of your life would you like help?
I’m good at coming up with my own philosophies and giving advice to people, but what I really need to do is just go out there and accomplish actual great things.
What things do you find to be a chore? What things do you enjoy more than others?
What I find to be chores are.. chores Lol. I find being too meticulous when you don’t have to be-- a chore. However, I like to clean until everything is almost completely sterilized. Doesn't mean I enjoy it though... And what I enjoy more than most people is uh... Sudoku and Tetris. Pfft.. sorry, I know I should probably take this more seriously
What goals, aspirations, or plans do you have for the future? How did you come to have them?
I plan to work my ass off so I can get a nice ass house u feel. I want to have a happy family. I blame my partner
If you had enough money to live comfortably for the rest of your life without working, what would you do with your time?
Probably grow the biggest garden. Write all the stories I’ve been wanting to write without having to worry about all these damn bills
What traits do you find endearing that others might dislike? What traits are considered positive/neutral by others but tend to annoy you?
I don’t really know how to answer this question
What kinds of things do you do to manage and/or beautify your environment (your room, your house, etc.)? What do you think of daily chores?
A couple days ago, I took out the ugly makeshift curtain in my room that my uncle put up when I first moved in (and with duct tape at that)... and replaced it with a neat looking tapestry. I usually clean weekly. I can’t stand mold or dust so I also have an air filter in my room. Daily chores tire me out though… as fulfilling as it is being able to finally complete them. I uh, also like to mix and match my furniture.
How do you behave around strangers?
Mixed bag. Either reserved if I’m not feelin it, or really open and smiley. I've been described as warm and having a sunny disposition... but also sometimes really depressed looking (cuz I'm just not trying anymore)
How do you react to conflict? What do you do if somebody insults or attacks you?
Oh boy. I cry lol
What is one common misconception that people have? Explain why it is wrong.
People think I’m a snake or have ulterior motives when I’m honestly just trying to help lol. Like damn, do I really seem that untrustworthy--
What did you do last Friday?
I don’t remember……….. I know I ate cake for breakfast, lunch, and dinner... In bed. Shoulda asked me what I did on Saturday though. Cuz I got hella stuff done
Aaaand... a link to a video that I will prolly delete sooner or later (sorry for not being able to get my thoughts out in a more logical and coherent manner... also don't mind my weird setup): removed