Yuma - 21 Q

[Yuma]

THE 21 QUESTIONS

Personal concepts
1. What is beauty? What is love?
Beauty is a perception. It’s something an individual find harmonious and generally pretty. Beauty can be used with almost anything. A beautiful house, a beautiful person (looks and personality), a poem, music, etc…
Love is a feeling. It’s often used with human relationships. Love can be towards family, a special partner, friends. It’s a higher level of “like”. You can also use it towards food, colors, music and much of the same things as “beautiful”.
We can see the difference in this sentence: “It’s beautiful, I love it.”. Beautiful is applied to a something. Love is the feeling you have towards it.

2. What are your most important values?
I value the beautiful. Music and art, warmness, softness, nice people and nature. I am sure I could’ve gone on. I think I could say harmony and peace above all.

3. Do you have any sort of spiritual/religious beliefs, and why do you hold (or don't) those beliefs in the first place?
I do. It has come to me from my parents. It also has a lot of generally nice morals to follow. I just don’t see anything wrong with it.

4. Opinion on war and militaries? What is power to you?
Militaries protect us from war. I am not very knowledgeable on this topic, but I believe a lot of how we are handling this is not very good. War is always bad.
Power is quality and quantity.

Interests
5. What have you had long conversations about? What are your interests? Why?
I usually don’t have long conversations about specific things. If I even have long conversations it would be on quite a variety of topics.
I don’t have that many interests, but I really enjoy “small arts”. By that I mean music and art, playing instruments, digital music and drawing. Not art that you need a lot of resources for.

6. Interested in health/medicine as a conversation topic? Are you focused on your body?
I am not focused on health and medicine. I do find this to be boring. It’s good to be healthy, but it’s not interesting at all. I never work out or do anything in this area.

7. What do you think of daily chores?
I think I have a pretty common view on daily chores. They are boring, but sometimes they need to be done. Sometimes I try to make them a bit more fun by, as an example, putting on some music in the background.

8. Books or films you liked? Recently read/watched or otherwise. Examples welcome.
I do love animated films. The visuals and possibilities stimulates me. I find other “non-animated” movies not that enjoyable, so I usually don’t watch them.
For books, I never read. It’s just too plain and boring for me. As I said, I love visuals.

9. What has made you cry? What has made you smile? Why?
I don’t cry much. It usually never reaches the point where I cry.
I usually smile at cute moments in both reality and in movies. Like clumsy people, or maybe spotting animals. And of course, if there is anything i find funny, I would naturally smile. I can smile at a lot of different things, and often small things.

10. Where do you feel: at one with the environment/a sense of belonging?
Somewhere harmonious. Somewhere relaxing. This can be achieved with music, or maybe just quiet environments. Out in nature is a good place, as it’s quiet and beautiful scenery. I know sleeping animals often creates a type of comfort in me. Soft talking is also good.

Evaluation & Behaviour
11. What have people seen as your weaknesses? What do you dislike about yourself?
I would say people would say my weakness could be that I am too shy. Sometimes it can be hard to say anything at all.
There is much I dislike about myself. I am pretty content. If there’s anything, it’s only small stuff.

12. What have people seen as your strengths? What do you like about yourself?
I can’t think of anything special at the moment. Maybe that I am usually pretty content.

13. In what areas of your life would you like help?
I am not sure about this one. I like to be independent. I don’t want to rely on other people.

14. Ever feel stuck in a rut? If yes, describe the causes and your reaction to it.
Yes. Sometimes my head is just completely blank. I have no ideas and no creativity. I don’t really know how to fix it, and it can be quite frustrating not having any ideas or anything.

People & Interactions
15. What qualities do you most like and dislike in other people? What types do you get along with?
I like nice people. People who can have fun and don’t take everything too seriously.
And then, I don’t like rude people. People that say mean things and create quarrels.

16. How do you feel about romance/sex? What qualities do you want in a partner?
Romance seems nice and cute. Being in love with each others seems like a wonderful thing.
Sex is embarrassing to talk about.
I would want a partner that is nice and warm, and loves me. Someone I can open up to.

17. If you were to raise a child, what would be your main concerns, what measures would you take, and why?
I would hope he/she could get good friends. And, of course a good upbringing with lots of love.
I would take any measure for my kid.

18. A friend makes a claim that clashes with your current beliefs. What is your inward and outward reaction?
I am not one to decide what beliefs another person should have. I would maybe try to explain why I think it’s how I think, but not much more. Maybe I would think I hope she/he could understand.

19. Describe your relationship to society. How do you see people as a whole? What do you consider a prevalent social problem? Name one.
I don’t really have a special relationship with society. I don’t really care that much.
I see people as humans just doing their own thing. Some people may fall on a “bad” path, some on a good one.
I would say a social problem is hate. People with too strong negative feelings. I am not sure how to prevent this. No clue.

20. How do you choose your friends and how do you behave around them?
I usually don’t choose friends. It’s more often the other way. I try to behave nice, maybe smile and adjust to their level. I am not all the good at opening up to people.
I think we both would’ve lost interest in each others quick if we weren’t for each others.
I do often feel a bit uncomfortable around people, so I usually enjoy my time alone.

21. How do you behave around strangers?
Polite. Act according to the situation. In one way I care less about how I act around strangers, but I don’t want to leave much of a impression at all, and definitely not a bad one.

[Chae]

Personal concepts 4) has an unfinished sentence?

Skimming the text, I get Fe or Fi lead from you so far, I'll check it out in detail and observe what others say, I'll return for feedback then.

[Yuma]

Personal concepts 4) has an unfinished sentence?

Skimming the text, I get Fe or Fi lead from you so far, I'll check it out in detail and observe what others say, I'll return for feedback then.

Oops! It was just a mistake in the structure (it was the next headline).

Thanks for looking through!

[Exodus]

THE 21 QUESTIONS


2. What are your most important values?[/COLOR]
I value the beautiful. Music and art, warmness, softness, nice people and nature. I am sure I could’ve gone on. I think I could say harmony and peace above all.
values

3. Do you have any sort of spiritual/religious beliefs, and why do you hold (or don't) those beliefs in the first place?
I do. It has come to me from my parents. It also has a lot of generally nice morals to follow. I just don’t see anything wrong with it.
maybe low /?


5. What have you had long conversations about? What are your interests? Why?
I usually don’t have long conversations about specific things. If I even have long conversations it would be on quite a variety of topics.
I don’t have that many interests, but I really enjoy “small arts”. By that I mean music and art, playing instruments, digital music and drawing. Not art that you need a lot of resources for.

again some
6. Interested in health/medicine as a conversation topic? Are you focused on your body?
I am not focused on health and medicine. I do find this to be boring. It’s good to be healthy, but it’s not interesting at all. I never work out or do anything in this area.

not ?

I do love animated films. The visuals and possibilities stimulates me. I find other “non-animated” movies not that enjoyable, so I usually don’t watch them.
For books, I never read. It’s just too plain and boring for me. As I said, I love visuals.

9. What has made you cry? What has made you smile? Why?
I don’t cry much. It usually never reaches the point where I cry.
less maybe

10. Where do you feel: at one with the environment/a sense of belonging?
Somewhere harmonious. Somewhere relaxing. This can be achieved with music, or maybe just quiet environments. Out in nature is a good place, as it’s quiet and beautiful scenery. I know sleeping animals often creates a type of comfort in me. Soft talking is also good.

again probably valued

11. What have people seen as your weaknesses? What do you dislike about yourself?[/B][/SIZE][/COLOR]
I would say people would say my weakness could be that I am too shy. Sometimes it can be hard to say anything at all. introversion
There is much I dislike about myself. I am pretty content. If there’s anything, it’s only small stuff.

again seems -ish
12. What have people seen as your strengths? What do you like about yourself?
I can’t think of anything special at the moment. Maybe that I am usually pretty content.

good
13. In what areas of your life would you like help?
I am not sure about this one. I like to be independent. I don’t want to rely on other people.

maybe low
14. Ever feel stuck in a rut? If yes, describe the causes and your reaction to it.
Yes. Sometimes my head is just completely blank. I have no ideas and no creativity. I don’t really know how to fix it, and it can be quite frustrating not having any ideas or anything.

low

15. What qualities do you most like and dislike in other people? What types do you get along with?
I like nice people. People who can have fun and don’t take everything too seriously.
And then, I don’t like rude people. People that say mean things and create quarrels.

perhaps

18. A friend makes a claim that clashes with your current beliefs. What is your inward and outward reaction?
I am not one to decide what beliefs another person should have. I would maybe try to explain why I think it’s how I think, but not much more. Maybe I would think I hope she/he could understand.

this is more typical of (and also ) values. generally sounds Delta.

19. Describe your relationship to society. How do you see people as a whole? What do you consider a prevalent social problem? Name one.
I don’t really have a special relationship with society. I don’t really care that much.
I see people as humans just doing their own thing. Some people may fall on a “bad” path, some on a good one.
I would say a social problem is hate. People with too strong negative feelings. I am not sure how to prevent this. No clue.

This also sounds Delta. General disinterest in greater societal issues (opposite of Beta)

20. How do you choose your friends and how do you behave around them?
I usually don’t choose friends. It’s more often the other way. I try to behave nice, maybe smile and adjust to their level. I am not all the good at opening up to people.
I think we both would’ve lost interest in each others quick if we weren’t for each others.
I do often feel a bit uncomfortable around people, so I usually enjoy my time alone.

"I usually don’t choose friends. It’s more often the other way. " - introversion. Again more stuff about being "nice", generally Delta sounding.

21. How do you behave around strangers?
Polite. Act according to the situation. In one way I care less about how I act around strangers, but I don’t want to leave much of a impression at all, and definitely not a bad one.


"I don’t want to leave much of a impression at all" - suggests low and introversion.

Generally you sound like a Delta introvert, I would prefer SLI but maybe EII is also plausible.

[Yuma]

I do relate to some of the Delta values from what I've read. Especially with how they prefer tranquillity. I read somewhere, they are seen as a "serious" quadra. I wouldn't consider myself a serious person, more the opposite (or at least, I don't want people to take me that seriously, because it's too tiring.). But still, their values seem to be on pair with me.

[Exodus]

I do relate to some of the Delta values from what I've read. Especially with how they prefer tranquillity. I read somewhere, they are seen as a "serious" quadra. I wouldn't consider myself a serious person, more the opposite (or at least, I don't want people to take me that seriously, because it's too tiring.). But still, their values seem to be on pair with me.

Yeah, I noticed in the chatbox that you do seem to use . I would consider SEI as well.

[Mysterious Tyrone Biggalo]

It's the woman's fault not yours, this is completely what an LII with 1D Suggestive Fe/2D Role Fi would have to deal with in a relationship like that, I've seen this happen before plenty of times. Kick her out or call the cops, she can't just claim rape without probable cause. Are you sure you didn't slap her though?

[Mysterious Tyrone Biggalo]

did you seriously just delete that post? you should be banned for bring that up.

[Yuma]

:0

[Persephone]

An LII using colours in his questionnaire, that's something new, never seen this before.

[Exodus]

An LII using colours in his questionnaire, that's something new, never seen this before.

Good observation I didn't even notice...

[The Exception]

Good observation I didn't even notice...

Must be an SEI.

[Persephone]

Must be an SEI.

Oh wait we have an LII 5W6 here, welcome.

[Myst]

Si type

[Yuma]

So SLI or SEI, then. Why a sensoric type?

[Exodus]

I like nice people. People who can have fun and don’t take everything too seriously.
And then, I don’t like rude people. People that say mean things and create quarrels.

Actually -- I should say that this is really about Si values, much more than Fi.

[Myst]

So SLI or SEI, then. Why a sensoric type?

Nothing in your questionnaire was an Intuitive answer.

Si stuff:

Your answer to beauty question for example; no Intuition applied there whatsoever. OK, I'll show you concrete examples. Highlighting the Si parts in bold. Some of it may have Fi (demonstrative?) in the background, too. Underlined signifies you have this as a major value in a strong function, seeing it easily in most things. Italicized is also low Ne. Added comments/questions in brackets.

It’s something an individual find harmonious and generally pretty. Beauty can be used with almost anything. A beautiful house, a beautiful person (looks and personality), a poem, music, etc…
Love is a feeling. It’s often used with human relationships. Love can be towards family, a special partner, friends. It’s a higher level of “like”. You can also use it towards food, colors, music and much of the same things as “beautiful”.
I value the beautiful. Music and art, warmness, softness, nice people and nature. I am sure I could’ve gone on. I think I could say harmony and peace above all.
I don’t have that many interests, but I really enjoy “small arts”. [Unless I misunderstood what you meant there about small arts - seemed sensory to me]
I do love animated films. The visuals and possibilities stimulates me. I find other “non-animated” movies not that enjoyable, so I usually don’t watch them. [What kind of possibilities stimulate you?]
For books, I never read. It’s just too plain and boring for me. As I said, I love visuals.
Somewhere harmonious. Somewhere relaxing. This can be achieved with music, or maybe just quiet environments. Out in nature is a good place, as it’s quiet and beautiful scenery. I know sleeping animals often creates a type of comfort in me. Soft talking is also good.
There is not much I dislike about myself. I am pretty content. If there’s anything, it’s only small stuff.
I can’t think of anything special at the moment. Maybe that I am usually pretty content.
Sometimes my head is just completely blank. I have no ideas and no creativity. I don’t really know how to fix it, and it can be quite frustrating not having any ideas or anything. [Quite "textbook" Ne seeking]

Etc.


Where you do reject "stereotypical" Si were the following:

I am not focused on health and medicine. I do find this to be boring. It’s good to be healthy, but it’s not interesting at all. I never work out or do anything in this area.
I think I have a pretty common view on daily chores. They are boring, but sometimes they need to be done. Sometimes I try to make them a bit more fun by, as an example, putting on some music in the background.

Might be to do with you being a teenager or something?


Oh and Si with Fi/Fe:

I like nice people. People who can have fun and don’t take everything too seriously.
And then, I don’t like rude people. People that say mean things and create quarrels.
Romance seems nice and cute. Being in love with each others seems like a wonderful thing.
I would want a partner that is nice and warm, and loves me. Someone I can open up to.


Etc. All in all you come off as SEI pretty much. SLI at best as a quite distant second option. Would you see ILE as the dual?

One thing I'd like to know: where you say: "I see people as humans just doing their own thing. Some people may fall on a “bad” path, some on a good one". What do you mean by path? Can you give some examples of this?

Actually -- I should say that this is really about Si values, much more than Fi.

Both, I'd say. The demonstrative plays an important role.

[Yuma]

Nothing in your questionnaire was an Intuitive answer.

I do love animated films. The visuals and possibilities stimulates me. I find other “non-animated” movies not that enjoyable, so I usually don’t watch them. [
[What kind of possibilities stimulate you?]

I think it's just possibilities in general. Like what you can do with animation and how you can make unrealistic stuff. Like emotions, scenery and everything you can make.

I am not focused on health and medicine. I do find this to be boring. It’s good to be healthy, but it’s not interesting at all. I never work out or do anything in this area.
I think I have a pretty common view on daily chores. They are boring, but sometimes they need to be done. Sometimes I try to make them a bit more fun by, as an example, putting on some music in the background.

Might be to do with you being a teenager or something?

No, it's not that. It's just how I am.


Oh and Si with Fi/Fe:

I like nice people. People who can have fun and don’t take everything too seriously.
And then, I don’t like rude people. People that say mean things and create quarrels.
Romance seems nice and cute. Being in love with each others seems like a wonderful thing.
I would want a partner that is nice and warm, and loves me. Someone I can open up to.


All in all you come off as SEI pretty much. SLI at best as a quite distant second option. Would you see ILE as the dual?
I don't know to "see" someone as my dual. They couldseem fun from what I know. But, I am not that good at opening up, myself, so I think maybe I would've thought IEE>ILE. But I am not sure. Sorry for the bad answer xP

One thing I'd like to know: where you say: "I see people as humans just doing their own thing. Some people may fall on a “bad” path, some on a good one". What do you mean by path? Can you give some examples of this?

I just mean that anything can happen to how a person becomes. Maybe put it a bit weirdly. It was more of a, kind of way of saying that people are people. Eh... this sounds too similar to what I wrote. Path is just like the path you go on in life, not anything deep behind it. Think of a "bad" person, like any person that is looked down upon in some way. He went were he went, and became how he became.

Hope this was at least something you hoped for x)

[Myst]

Hope this was at least something you hoped for x)

Yeah it clarified things I did notice your notes on the issues with opening up but I don't know if that's not just introversion because otherwise I saw no Te.

[chrys]

SLI!

[wasp]

such a cute aesthetic

socionics Si is my favorite function ;o I can't think of a single person who likes doing chores, so I don't know why that's being perceived as anti-Si. I think Fe-creative fits, you seem very tranquil. were there any function/type descriptions that stood out to you as being relatable?