Stevie
sx 2 (Mariah is a 3 but the song is 2)
Turnaround bright eyes, every now and then I fall apart
And I need you more than ever
Once upon a time I was falling in love
But now I'm only falling apart
And there's nothing I can do
A total eclipse of the heart
Once upon a time there was light in my life
But now there's only love in the dark
Nothing I can say
A total eclipse of the heart
・゚*✧ 𝓘 𝓌𝒾𝓁𝓁 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝒶𝒸𝒸𝑒𝓅𝓉 𝒶 𝓁𝒾𝒻𝑒 𝓘 𝒹𝑜 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝒹𝑒𝓈𝑒𝓇𝓋𝑒 ✧*:・゚
2w3.
@Medusa
"I don't think you ever stop giving. I really don't. I think it's an on-going process. And it's not just about being able to write a check. It's being able to touch somebody's life."
"What material success does is provide you with the ability to concentrate on other things that really matter. And that is being able to make a difference, not only in your own life, but in other people's lives."
"Money is worth nothing if it can't buy you the opportunity to love more."
"To me, the money is - it's certainly a wonderful thing. But it is in direct proportion to how you're able to bless yourself and bless others with it."
"That's the gift that a mother can give, to make everyone feel like they are the special one."
"Surround yourself with only people who are going to lift you higher."
"I had no idea that being your authentic self could make me as rich as I’ve become. If I had, I’d have done it a lot earlier."
"On this day you've brought him [your ex boyfriend] to the station to see where you work, hoping he'll be proud, too. He seems less than impressed. The truth is, he's intimidated. You don't know this, though, because you can see yourself only through his eyes. A lesson you will have to learn again and again: to see yourself with your own eyes, to love yourself from your own heart. You've spent too many days and years trying to please others and be what they wanted you to be."
Phobic So/Sp 6w7 3w2 9w1
Bit of a comic books nerd, bit of a fashion nerd, a lot of a generalized nerd
There are big ships, and small ships,
And ships that have sunk at sea.
But, the best ships are friendships.
And may they always be.
Projection is ordinary. Person A projects at person B, hoping tovalidate something about person A by the response of person B. However, person B, not wanting to be an obejct of someone elses ego and guarding against existential terror constructs a personality which protects his ego and maintain a certain sense of a robust and real self that is different and separate from person A. Sadly, this robust and real self, cut off by defenses of character from the rest of the world, is quite vulnerable and fragile given that it is imaginary and propped up through external feed back. Person B is dimly aware of this and defends against it all the more, even desperately projecting his anxieties back onto person A, with the hope of shoring up his ego with salubrious validation. All of this happens without A or B acknowledging it, of course. Because to face up to it consciously is shocking, in that this is all anybody is doing or can do and it seems absurd when you realize how pathetic it is.
Bella Ellwood-Clayton - 2w1 so/sp the "soc" socialite subtype (ESI?)
Cortney Warren - 2w1 so/sp (IEI?)
Really? 6s in general seem to be the type most hostile to Trump, along with 9s and 1s, precisely because he's so unpredictable, impolitic, braggadocious and unconcerned about creating harmony. Trump has no coherent ideology, doesn't like zealots and prefers to "wing it". Someone like this will induces phenomenal amounts of anxiety in a 6.
As it happens, most SJWs are SX-last 6s and 9s.
The types who are warmest to Trump will be those who see his behaviour as a strength, rather than a weakness - probably 3s, 7s and other 8s.
he's talking about unhealthy 2s (if that wasn't clear)
Drew Barrymore - 2w3 sp/sx (IEE?)
Drew Barrymore is SP-last I'm pretty sure..
Adele - 2w3 ESFp - strong social instinct going on here
Georgia Toffolo (Toff) - 2w1 (SEE)
she thinks herself as 2. She've attracted my attention by 9 traits, though the truth is somewhere out there
2w3 disintegration (skip to 2:48 for more detail)
Give 'em love and what does it get ya?
What does it get ya?
Phobic So/Sp 6w7 3w2 9w1
Bit of a comic books nerd, bit of a fashion nerd, a lot of a generalized nerd
Amazing. This guy's working on an enneagram series of songs. "One" was pretty nice, but this is excellent:
I know exactly how the rule goes:
put my mask on first.
Phobic So/Sp 6w7 3w2 9w1
Bit of a comic books nerd, bit of a fashion nerd, a lot of a generalized nerd
@Stellafera I love it! Good find.
Phobic So/Sp 6w7 3w2 9w1
Bit of a comic books nerd, bit of a fashion nerd, a lot of a generalized nerd
This song feels a little 6-ish. At least that's the type of songs that an e6 friend keeps linking when he's in the feels.
2s & 6s are both on the axis of relations and caring so it becomes difficult to tell them apart sometimes.
the woman in the first episode is probably 2w1 Fe-ESE - she invested so much effort into trying to make her pit "a better dog"
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http://www.insightfulinnovations.com...ication-styles
Enneagram Communication Styles - Type 2
Talk style: Effusive, relational, heartfelt, emotional, helpful, complimentary and managerial.
Energy: Soft on the outside, hard on the inside, seductive, sticky, clingy, flirtatious, nurturing/motherly.
Image Statement: I am helpful; I am nice; I am giving; My will be done; I have what you need. Two's want to be seen as helpful and kind people because this supports their self image. Two's will present themselves as someone who has whatever you need whether it is resources or attention.
Conflict Style: Dramatic, wet, emotionally explosive, entitled, sulking, martyring, or blustery anger. Two's are triggered by the message that they are not kind or helpful or by the implication that their efforts to help are not well received.
Conflict Resolution: Assure the 2 that you appreciate their efforts and that they are not in vain but remind them that they choose to do whatever it is they are doing. Remind the 2 that you want them to take care of themselves because typically their anger stems from the misdirected feeling of having to care for others. Acknowledge their emotional displays but do not pay too much attention to their histrionics.
ego:
SX first, 1-wing