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    Quote Originally Posted by Chae View Post
    Oh so the "traditionalist perfectionist" version of 2?
    yeah i guess. everything has to be in order all the time. and once she comes home she always complain about someone at work.. but when she actually talks to people shes overly positive and warm and kind of histrionic. she also expects people to be bad, like once she forgot her scarf or something in a store and she was dead certain that someone mustve stolen it. then she went there and was very surprised that no one had stolen it haha. (6 fix)

    she wouldnt do that exact holiday decor haha but every holiday she over-decorates so it looks a little silly. and she has so many unneccesary plants outside. its too much. i think they do it to show that "youre welcome" or something. same with texts .... omg. she sends like a thousand hearts and emojis.

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    Phobic So/Sp 6w7 3w2 9w1
    Bit of a comic books nerd, bit of a fashion nerd, a lot of a generalized nerd

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    2w3

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    2w3 Sp/Sx



    Lyrics

    My pussy taste like Pepsi-Cola,
    My eyes are wide like cherry pies.
    I gots a taste for men who're older
    It's always been, so it's no surprise.


    Ah, he's in the sky with diamonds and he's making me crazy (I come alive, alive)
    All he wants to do is party with his pretty baby.


    Come on, baby, let's ride
    We can escape to the great sunshine.
    I know your wife, that she wouldn't mind
    We made it out to the other side [3x]
    Come on, come on
    Come on, come on
    Come on, baby.


    I fall asleep in an American flag
    I wear my diamonds on skid row
    I pledge allegiance to my dad
    For teaching me everything he knows


    Ah, he's in the sky with diamonds and he's making me crazy (I come alive, alive))
    All he wants to do is party with his pretty baby


    Come on, baby, let's ride,
    We can escape to the great sunshine.
    I know your wife, that she wouldn't mind
    We made it out to the other side [3x]


    Drugs suck it up
    Like vanilla icies
    Don't treat me rough,
    Treat me really niceys
    Decorate my neck
    Diamantes ices
    Why, come on, come on
    Ooh, ooh, ooh,
    Ooh, yeah


    Come on baby, let's ride
    We can escape to the great sunshine
    I know your wife, that she wouldn't mind
    We made it out to the other side


    Come on baby, let's ride
    We can escape to the great sunshine
    We made it out to the other side
    We made it out to the other side


    Come on, come on
    Come on, baby
    Come on, come on
    Come on, baby


    Whoa ah
    My pussy taste like Pepsi-Cola
    Oh... ah
    My pussy taste like Pepsi-Cola
    Oh....
    My pussy taste like Pepsi-Cola
    Oh... whoa...yeah

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    2w1 so/sx, on her MBTI type




    2w3 so/sp - Cassie Jaye

    Last edited by silke; 07-03-2018 at 06:48 AM.

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    Celebs [x] Theory [x] Tumblr [x]

    *********** 21-04-19:
    "Looks like a mystic that just arrived to battle and staring out at the battle, ready to unleash"



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    SEE-Se 2w3


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    on that connection that 2's have with 8's

    Tonight, I received a reminder from my best friend. Originally, I wrote a long post giving backstory and context for the text, but ultimately decided I didn’t want to go into that much identifying detail. I don’t want to betray her confidence by posting too much here.

    Basically, my 8w9 best friend was worried that I would be putting myself in a compromising social situation with someone who has made unwanted advances. I was invited to go to a party with him and others. I wanted to go mainly because I’m bored and feeling isolated from my usual social circles. I knew I would have to guard myself in several ways (stay sober, have my own transportation to and from the event, etc.) but I felt prepared and felt the pros outweighed the cons.

    I told her about my plans. I picked up on her disapproval. I decided to cancel my plans to go. After awhile, I checked back in with her and we texted back and forth. Ultimately, she said,

    “I just want you to know that you don’t have to make compromises or sacrifices to feel connected to others. And this situation, sounds like that’s exactly what you’re doing.”

    This is so important for twos to hear. I totally get her concern for me. I have been guilty of putting others’ needs before my own or ignoring my needs altogether. In this situation, I’m still milling over whether I was compromising or sacrificing. I don’t believe I was. I enjoy the company of who I’d go to the party with. But they have issues I have to be mindful of.

    I was struck by how quickly I dissolved my plans when greeted with disapproval from someone I admire so much. I know it was the right call, but I have to be conscientious of doing things because I want to do them. Not because I want approval or to avoid disapproval.

    As an 8, she doesn’t want anyone to take advantage of me. She eventually said, “I trust you, I don’t trust others. If you feel like you can handle it then you should go. I’m just being an overprotective asshole. I should trust that you can take care of yourself.”

    I thought this was an interesting situation that 2s and 8s could relate to. Personally, 8s have been some of my favorite people and I think the relationships between 2s and 8s are mutually beneficial.

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    2w1 sp/so (ESE?) - Christine Blasey Ford

    Naranjo SP-2 - More childlike than the other two subtypes. There is inherent cuteness, less adult. "Infantile" by psychoanaytic standards. "ME" is the most important, in a child like way, a child-like importance. Wants to be loved just for being. Their needs for love is quite naked. They use remaining little for gain. Pretend to be unadulterated.

    The Preservation 2 again is very different. It's more child-like. It's seduction again but it's more the seduction of a child in the presence of grown-ups, the seduction of the father, the seduction of the mother. A child is more cute, so this is a kind of cute 2. They don't look so adult ... Social 2 seems over-adult, over-ripe ... and the Sexual 2 feel like, Carmen - you know that character? [www.youtube.com/watch?v=djsuP0uta7s] Like a force of nature, wildness. But preservation 2 is like cute. We don't have time for more literal explanations ... of course, it is possible to illustrate everything through the movies ... but let me stick to the central issue here. This character was called by the psychoanalysts "infantile". Ichazo used the word expression "me - the most important". I misunderstood that for a long time. I thought it was a Napoleonic gesture: "I am the most important!" (thumps chest) - the desire for importance of an ambitious person. In the end, I came to understand that it's a child-like importance. A child wants to be loved, not for this and not for that - just because. Loved only for being, or for being who he or she is. What is prominent here is a love need. There's a naked love need. Not going through the sexualization of seduction or going through self-importance and building up yourself. There is some use in remaining little. Why would a person have a need to remain childish, to act childish? Of course there are advantages. Children are more liked than grown-ups. As we grow up, we lose points. They deserve the nicest, they haven't been contaminated so much yet. So we can pretend we are still that

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    so I was off typing this song as a 9 ... it's sp-last 2


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    So my type 2 ESE-Si mom said yesterday to me: "your new profile picture is so cute. i already saved it"
    and then i said "now i am gonna change it" (as a semi joke) and she was like "oh no, why" haha

    that awkward moment when your mom stalks you online

    sometimes she makes her profile pic a pic of me...

    as a gift, she gave me an old profile pic as a canvas before haha like wtf it's in my room now...

    she's a walking stereotype of (average to unhealthy) 2w3 hah.
    your biggest cheerleader but zero sense of personal boundaries
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    Quote Originally Posted by Olimpia View Post
    So my type 2 ESE-Si mom said yesterday to me: "your new profile picture is so cute. i already saved it"
    and then i said "now i am gonna change it" (as a semi joke) and she was like "oh no, why" haha

    that awkward moment when your mom stalks you online

    sometimes she makes her profile pic a pic of me...

    as a gift, she gave me an old profile pic as a canvas before haha like wtf it's in my room now...

    she's a walking stereotype of (average to unhealthy) 2w3 hah.
    your biggest cheerleader but zero sense of personal boundaries
    Isn't she going to read this lol.
    ----- FarDraft, 2019

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    Quote Originally Posted by FarDraft View Post
    Isn't she going to read this lol.
    Thankfully she only stalks me on WhatsApp now (and in the past on Facebook, but not anymore) haha
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    Quote Originally Posted by Olimpia View Post
    sometimes she makes her profile pic a pic of me...

    as a gift, she gave me an old profile pic as a canvas before haha like wtf it's in my room now...
    wtf

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    disintegration?


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