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    Quote Originally Posted by Stellafera View Post
    weak, you have to slightly nudge the headphones while you pretend to stroke your hair so that you actually listen perfectly clearly despite all appearances of obscured hearing

    not that I've ever done that

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    Default Unhealthy SP 6

    New Youtube [x] Get Typed! [x]
    Celebs [x] Theory [x] Tumblr [x]

    *********** 21-04-19:
    "Looks like a mystic that just arrived to battle and staring out at the battle, ready to unleash"



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    Quote Originally Posted by lynn View Post
    Counterphobic 6.
    New Youtube [x] Get Typed! [x]
    Celebs [x] Theory [x] Tumblr [x]

    *********** 21-04-19:
    "Looks like a mystic that just arrived to battle and staring out at the battle, ready to unleash"



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    typical 6w7 style of humor described in this video - Ellen Degeneres




    Jordan Belfort - 6w7 so/sp




    Karen Straughan - 6w5 so/sx




    Donovan Worland - 6w5 so/sx

    Last edited by silke; 12-16-2017 at 10:44 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by silke View Post
    typical 6w7 style of humor described in this video

    so much Fe valuing (alpha I think)
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    some random 6 youtubers





    6 couple
    Last edited by maniac; 12-10-2017 at 08:21 PM.

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    Default Counterphobic 6 :'D


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    648ness

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    Edvard Munch - The Scream (1910)



    It's one of 5 versions that Munch made, and the one with the most infamous history. It has actually been stolen in 2004, recovered 2 years later. It reminds me of how six always has the worst case scenario in mind and ends up bringing it about, the self-fulfilling prophecy. This painting literally screams for disaster.

    In general, many of Munch's artworks reflect style 6.

    Vampire (Love and Pain)
    Munch said it shows merely a kiss.



    Death in the sickroom



    Workers on Their Way Home



    Four girls at Asgardstrand


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    @Chae His work vibes more 5 imo. There's a lot of isolation and as you said, sickness, whereas a 6 would probably want to display something more wholesome being a moralistic and attachment type. Especially that fourth one where the people are in his face feels like that's from a 5s POV rather than 6. It's like human interraction is suffocating.

    This one's called "Self-portrait in hell" lol

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    another 6 youtuber (the guy, the girl may be 9w8?)


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    Quote Originally Posted by maniac View Post
    @Chae His work vibes more 5 imo. There's a lot of isolation and as you said, sickness, whereas a 6 would probably want to display something more wholesome being a moralistic and attachment type. Especially that fourth one where the people are in his face feels like that's from a 5s POV rather than 6. It's like human interraction is suffocating.

    This one's called "Self-portrait in hell" lol


    Isolation is not primary. See workers, sickroom image, girls - all in conformity, community, which means: safety. The vampire kiss: obviously betrayal and threat combined within a dangerous partner that reflects all of your horrifying fantasies.

    6 can express their anxiety (and suffocation: I'm sick of this, why can't I trust and rely on you!), 5 can and does not, pretending and struggling "I am still capable, think think think...". Angsty, vulnerable self-portrait in hell - how 6 can it get! I doubt a 5 would paint something called the "scream" either, they would rather sit back and analyze in a detached way. Munch however goes right in. 5's motivation is the opposite of being immersed because it distresses them. That is one of the fundamental differences.

    You'd think this is Munch portraying 5, for instance:



    But no, the painting is called melancholy: 4-fix. It's self-indulged, not observing if you look closely. The expression is sad, very sad. Heart triad. He has another work called "Jealousy", go figure. That's the type of reclusion that comes up.

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    Not going to argue with someone who resorts to insults and snarky remarks. Byebye and take your anger and unhappiness somewhere else, perhaps real life where the real cause is at.

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    Quote Originally Posted by maniac View Post
    Not going to argue with someone who resorts to insults and snarky remarks. Byebye and take your anger and unhappiness somewhere else, perhaps real life where the real cause is at.
    You're just salty and not ready to get called out. But okay. I'll leave you alone if you feel hurt, sorry. Just don't accuse me of something that you feel inside (can you look into my brain? no. you can only voice what you feel). For my part, I can't understand the sudden offense, it's trivial banter to me, esp since I gave more explanation than "insult". Real insult to me is throwing the n-word or worse. Thanks for alerting me tho, now I see your threshold is different. The way I assessed you was that it's not easy to step on your toes as you're usually tough and VERY snarky yourself you know What one dislikes about another mirrors themselves often. Again apologies, I see I crossed your boundary. If ya don't like me or feel sensitive about my replies, don't want conflict, ignore is the way to go. Okay?

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    do you ever get tired of race baiting chae or is it something you foresee doing the rest of your life

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    another 6

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    ellen=6. this is so mean and cringy


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    the girl character in this show is 684

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jezebel View Post
    the girl character in this show is 684
    Yes, very much so.
    ・゚*✧ 𝓘 𝓌𝒾𝓁𝓁 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝒶𝒸𝒸𝑒𝓅𝓉 𝒶 𝓁𝒾𝒻𝑒 𝓘 𝒹𝑜 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝒹𝑒𝓈𝑒𝓇𝓋𝑒 ✧*:・゚

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    guessing Varg Vikernes is 6w7 sx/sp




    Survive the Jive - 6w7 so/sx (Si)




    Citizen X - 6w5 sx/sp (IEE?)

    Last edited by silke; 03-13-2018 at 06:03 AM.

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    Phobic So/Sp 6w7 3w2 9w1
    Bit of a comic books nerd, bit of a fashion nerd, a lot of a generalized nerd

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    http://www.insightfulinnovations.com...ication-styles

    Enneagram Communication Styles - Type 6
    Talk Style: Tentative, funny, friendly, warm (or prickly), engaging, rebellious, provocative.

    Energy: Mentally active, hyper-vigilant, anxious, contained, suspicious, penetrating, punchy and high strung.

    Image Statement: I am clever; I must be safe; I am loyal; I am harmless; I am "real". Sixes want to be seen as responsible, clever and loyal. They may cover feelings of insecurity with ingratiating niceness or sweetness or rebellious provocativeness.

    Conflict Style:Vacillating, blaming, victimizing, distrusting, cross-examining, quick and relentless. Sixes are triggered by feeling mistrustful or feeling blamed. They may become terrier-like and questioning when feelings of insecurity or abandonment are brought up.

    Conflict Resolution: Admit any ulterior motives. Try to stay calm but don’t dismiss them, Find common ground and allay their fears of abandonment or anger. Do not get lost in their arguing circle, if it feels like a marathon walk away. Hold your opinion but don’t be stubborn about seeing their point of view. Do not insult their intelligence or flatter or appease them. Don’t try to win, this will only escalate the argument. DON’T ever tell a 6 to calm down!

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    P.S: Good content, horrible sound.
    New Youtube [x] Get Typed! [x]
    Celebs [x] Theory [x] Tumblr [x]

    *********** 21-04-19:
    "Looks like a mystic that just arrived to battle and staring out at the battle, ready to unleash"



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    New Youtube [x] Get Typed! [x]
    Celebs [x] Theory [x] Tumblr [x]

    *********** 21-04-19:
    "Looks like a mystic that just arrived to battle and staring out at the battle, ready to unleash"



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    Went through my tumblr, 6 confirmed lol.

    Images under spoiler, enjoy.









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    Quote Originally Posted by Samson View Post
    Went through my tumblr, 6 confirmed lol.

    Images under spoiler, enjoy.









    Yeah, looks like you have a counter phobic 6 fix.
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    Quote Originally Posted by tela View Post
    ellen=6. this is so mean and cringy

    So/Sp 6w7 stuff.
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    Quote Originally Posted by tela View Post
    some random 6 youtubers





    6 couple
    Aren't they all 4s? Or at least very 4-ish (strong second fix), ha.

    The first two chicks are obvious 4s, even stereotypically in their appearance/expression.
    The first chick is probably average So/Sx 4(w3?), you can see her Social 4 self-consciousness.
    Overly focused on how she will be received by her audience, but also wanting to be/look "unique".

    The couple seems to be a 9 (him) - 4 (her) couple, imo.
    Maybeee she is a 6, but then with a secondary 4 fix like her boyfriend.

    The third woman is the only one who could be a CP6, but it is possible she is just a 4 with a secondary CP6 fix.
    It looks like she is doing some kind of "dress up" in her video, which reminds me more of an Image type.
    And her tattoos are also quite SO blindspot 4ish ("Raised from the dead").
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    New Youtube [x] Get Typed! [x]
    Celebs [x] Theory [x] Tumblr [x]

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    Quote Originally Posted by Olimpia View Post
    Aren't they all 4s? Or at least very 4-ish (strong second fix), ha.

    The first two chicks are obvious 4s, even stereotypically in their appearance/expression.
    The first chick is probably average So/Sx 4(w3?), you can see her Social 4 self-consciousness.
    Overly focused on how she will be received by her audience, but also wanting to be/look "unique".

    The couple seems to be a 9 (him) - 4 (her) couple, imo.
    Maybeee she is a 6, but then with a secondary 4 fix like her boyfriend.

    The third woman is the only one who could be a CP6, but it is possible she is just a 4 with a secondary CP6 fix.
    It looks like she is doing some kind of "dress up" in her video, which reminds me more of an Image type.
    And her tattoos are also quite SO blindspot 4ish ("Raised from the dead").
    Not everyone who dress different is 4.. sigh
    i dont feel like going on a big rant explaining why all of these people are 6s but yes most of them probably have a 4 fix. Besides the guy who is 639/693
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    Every FBI meme ever: 6w7, mostly SX first











    This is more 7w6:

















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    cp6
     

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chae View Post
    Every FBI meme ever: 6w7, mostly SX first
    literally one of my favorite memes

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    Now I live a waking life
    Of looking backwards, looking backwards;
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    Last edited by silke; 03-13-2018 at 05:58 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chae View Post
    i think he might be more 1

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    edit: wrong thread
    Phobic So/Sp 6w7 3w2 9w1
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    6w5 SX-last


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