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Last edited by maniac; 09-18-2020 at 06:03 PM.
Me 5w4 541 sx/sp
Mom 1w2 126 so/sp or sp/so
Dad 6w5 692 sp/so
Brother 7w6 7?4 so/sx
me- 4w5 so/sx
mom- 2w3 sp/sx
dad- 3w4 so/sp
My mom is actually the most extroverted, she's pretty loud and controlling whereas both me and my dad retreat more despite (maybe due to??) being so's. My mom doesn't care at all how she comes across usually, and she's got a lot of energy to burn.
Me who cares...
Dad 8w7 so/sp 873 tritype
Mom 1w2 sp/so 152 tritype
Gran 1w9 sp/sx 153 tritype
Aunt 3w4 sx/so 378 tritype (she is like my second mom)
Cousin, aunt's daughter 4w3 not sure about stacking 496 tritype
my dad...is complicated to figure out. I think he's a 5w6 sx/sp with a strong line to 8. (this is my primary reason for thinking he's LSI even though he's fiery and outwardly presents like maybe an EIE or something, but it could all fall apart if my analysis is wrong somewhere.)
my mom was 4w5. contra-flow, not so/sp.
my brother is 6w7. maybe so/sx?
I don't think about the enneagram types of others very much, so my thoughts aren't tight. instincts are just a ballpark.
Mom - EII - 1w2
Older sister - ESI
I - IEI
Younger Sister - IEE
Younger Younger Sister - xEI
Nephew - ExE
Niece - SLE
Projection is ordinary. Person A projects at person B, hoping tovalidate something about person A by the response of person B. However, person B, not wanting to be an obejct of someone elses ego and guarding against existential terror constructs a personality which protects his ego and maintain a certain sense of a robust and real self that is different and separate from person A. Sadly, this robust and real self, cut off by defenses of character from the rest of the world, is quite vulnerable and fragile given that it is imaginary and propped up through external feed back. Person B is dimly aware of this and defends against it all the more, even desperately projecting his anxieties back onto person A, with the hope of shoring up his ego with salubrious validation. All of this happens without A or B acknowledging it, of course. Because to face up to it consciously is shocking, in that this is all anybody is doing or can do and it seems absurd when you realize how pathetic it is.
dad - either so/sp or sp/so 9w8 I can't decide between the two.
mom - sp/sx 1w2. before I also thought of 3w2 with strong 1 fix.
older brother - sx/so 7w8 he was always the life of the family but has the hardest time keeping it together for himself.
younger brother - sp/so or so/sp, 6w5 or 5w6, very heady and insightful.
sister - social 9? she is alike my younger brother but with a more laissez faire attitude to arguments.
me - sp/sx 6 with considerations of 4,6,9 at some point.
Me: 9w1 5w4 (Sometimes debate 5-core over 9 because relate a lot to motivations/being an observer/extreme withdrawness) 2w3 sp/so
My Mom: 7w6 with a strong six wing 2w3 8w7 so/sx
My Dad: 1w9 6w5/5w6 Unsure of heart... sp/so
My Sister: 6w7 4w5 9w1 sp/sx.
My Kitty: 3w2 9w8 5w6 sx/sp.
xII se PoLR, 9w1-5w4-2w3 sp/so
Phlegmatic-Melancholic |RCoAI| Fascinator| Newtype-secondary| LEFVl|
#JusticeforJeb_, Water Sheep did nothing wrong, High Inquisitor Of Council of Water Sheep and Water Sheep's protector
Make things right? Who are we to decide when things are right and when they need to be fixed?
I don't know enneagram, sorry
Mother: ESI - Dominant
Father: LSI - Normalizing
Sister ESE - Dominant
Uncle: LSE - Creative
Aunt: ESI - Normalizing
The decisive thing is not the reality of the object, but the reality of the subjective factor, i.e. the primordial images, which in their totality represent a psychic mirror-world. It is a mirror, however, with the peculiar capacity of representing the present contents of consciousness not in their known and customary form but in a certain sense sub specie aeternitatis, somewhat as a million-year old consciousness might see them.
(Jung on Si)
Me: cp6w7-8w7-3w2 so/sx (ILE-Ti)
Mum: 2w1-8w9-p6w7 sp/sx (EII-Fi)
Dad: 9w8-5wcp6-??? sp/so (SLI-Te)
Sister: 2w3-8w7-p6w7 sx/so (fuck knows, ESI-Se or something)
Me : 6w7-4w3-9w1 SX/SP ( EII-Fi )
Mom : 1w2-3w2-6w7 SO/SP ( LIE-Te )
Dad : 9w8-6w5-2w1 SP/SX ( ESI-Fi )
Sister : 6w7-2w3-1w2 idk about her instinctual variant ( SEE-Fi )
My family's enneagram types (predicted, without instinctual variants):
Mom: 2w1
Dad: 5w6 or 1w9
Sister: 7 or 9w8
mom 6w7
sister 6w5
(both are self-typed & got those results on tests)
dad is dead and is in instinctive triad... come back... pls
Last edited by marooned; 09-18-2020 at 04:21 AM.
My parents were SEE/ILI Gamma duals and growing up in this environment is torture for an EII who don't like parties, people around. Sometimes I wished my cousin LSE dual would take me home so that my SEE dad would stop putting me to work for one of his countless annoying parties and people around.
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Dual type (as per tcaudilllg)
Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
I'm kinda sure the thread is about enneagram and not socionics..
Anyway..
DAD: 5w6 sp/so LII
MOM: 6w7 so/sp ESE
My mother and father have been married for 35 years now.. they have been through a lot of shit together, idk how they manage, but they just do.
BROTHER: 3w4 so/sx SEE
ME: 6w5 sp/sx LSI
Dad ESE 3w2 378
Mom EII 9w1 947
Sister IEE 7wX 738
Brother EII 4w5 461
Brother SLI 6w7 693
Me EIE 3w4 (though 5w6 is very close) 359
DAD: ILI-Ni 1w2
MOM: ESI-Se 6w7
BROTHER: LII-Ti 9w8 (not sure abt enneagram)
ME: IEI-Ni 4w5
couple that with high SP in everyone, we make a pretty reclusive and minimalistic family