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    I used to think a difficult SLE was like dealing with the lord of darkness. After watching this again I can see it as a visual simile of an IEI interacting with a difficult LSE or vice versa, depending on your perspective.

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    Okay to recap

    LSEs can be cranky. Just the other day I was putting on a moisturizer in the kitchen and my LSE says "can't you do that in the bathroom and not in front of me?" Completely absent of all gentle emotions, very cold as if there was not a trace of love for me. I thought to myself if I were any other type I would not be as patient and would respond verbally and come back with an aggressive remark but always I remained silent and patient and the LSE realized that they were being cranky and said "oh boy I'm being cranky right now and I don't know why." I then realized that teak a typical LSE because they can't recognize their emotions and relate to others softly. It's all about controlling your actions. "Do what you're going to do in the right place for it."

    LSEs can be bitchy. Spewing out nonsense without thinking about their personal ties and relationships even though they care about them.

    They can be grumpy.

    They can watch the time and cut you off from speaking further if they determine that your time is up and they need to do something.

    They want to do thing on their terms being inconsistent of your needs and wants. This translates into a high degree of selfishness.

    They will arrange their own schedule according to their desired activities.

    They will mistreat people but on this they need to be reminded to calm down.

    LSEs can get into indecisive moments where they can't decide where to take you for a date lol
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    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

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    regarding video - sounds like exactly the kind of behavior that would repel me and not be interested in someone/want to be close to them


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    Quote Originally Posted by asd View Post
    regarding video - sounds like exactly the kind of behavior that would repel me and not be interested in someone/want to be close to them
    Not every Estj is like that my Estj is NOT at all
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    Dual type (as per tcaudilllg)
    Enneagram 2w1sw(1w9) helps others to live up to their own standards of what a good person is and is very behind the scenes in the process.
    Tritype 1-2-6 stacking sp/sx


    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

    Best description of functions:
    http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html

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