Mistyped? It's your relationship.
The point is, your view of the relationship is that he is subservient to the weakest female type. This is also correlating to your own psychological profile background you've stated.
That's your view.
I could give you a long dissertation about correct usages of socionics terms, definitions, and models; but considering you're an adult asking about life decisions with your spouse, it would be counterproductive to your real relationship to do such.
Try this... Show him the basic 8 functions on wikisocion, have him pick one from each of the Fi/Fe, Ti/Te, Ni/Ne, Si/Si pairs for him, this will give him a Quadra, then have him read from each type in that Quadra on one of the basic profiles/descriptions for him, pick which one he thinks he is, then have him do the same for you. Have him see if he agrees with the intertype relationship for what he picked. Then, compare his version of the relationship to your own.
Orrrr... Go to a counselor.
Orrrr... Simply sit back, say "I'm listening," and do just that. Listen. No interjections, and just listen. Then request he does the same. No good guys or bad guys. Simply open, honest, and non-combative communication.



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