Quote Originally Posted by Jeremy8419 View Post
@Hiketeia21

Both of these are correct. IEI is not dominant, and is one of the least dominant types. Literally the only type that IEI is dominant over is LII. Your DS unconsciously calls to you to be dominant, while you can't be, so this is why you're even with him.

To be dominant all he really needs to do is have you stop trying to be over him. You're weak compared to almost all types. He is weak to only you.
Well that's charitable. :/

Still, this might be good advice. The only problem is my complete Victim's aversion to submitting to someone not 'worthy'. I've rejected or ignored many people, not even maliciously, because they weren't The One.

I have for my husband feelings of compassion and love for something weak and lovely that deserves to be taken care of. I don't mind not being dominant all the time, but submission to *him* will take some doing...

It's not simply a matter of 'getting out of the way' because if I stand aside, he'll like...sit on his ass and argue with people on the internet and ask me to bring him cookies or something. Basically ruin it. Then I'll roll my eyes and revoke domination privileges.