Quote Originally Posted by Sol View Post
> My husband is LII and I am IEI; I am far more dominant than he is, incidentally

dominant IEI? check your type and husband's too
Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa
That's a relationship of benefits where the IEI is the benefactor thus in a superior position and yes they are far more assertive than the sensitive LII who are much like me. You need to check your socionics knowledge
@Hiketeia21

Both of these are correct. IEI is not dominant, and is one of the least dominant types. Literally the only type that IEI is dominant over is LII. Your DS unconsciously calls to you to be dominant, while you can't be, so this is why you're even with him.

To be dominant all he really needs to do is have you stop trying to be over him. You're weak compared to almost all types. He is weak to only you.