Saw someone say enfj men tend to be kind of feminine/effeminate. What do fellow eie dick-havers think?
That makes a lot of sense to me. As someone in scandinavia I feel different from the more repressed and emotionally covert majority
EIE males don't come off all that feminine to me, somewhat maybe- but the prickly EJ temperment helps masculinize them and off-set the NF femininity. And the fact that they are men regardless. Even girly/effeminate males are very male to me, you can sense their male ness regardless. Masculine "dyke-ish" women are still very much women to me. I don't like str8 man sports or (most) str8 male first shooter video games or flight simulation games that CPIG likes but I am still going to either greatly annoy people with my dickness or turn them on. I still feel 110% male even tho I played with barbies as a kid lol.
Any xxFx type male is going to come off a little feminine because in a very campy and over the top way: Men think and women feel. Lolol. Obviously it's more complicated and nuanced than that tho but gotta love stereotypes and exaggerations.
According to Gulenko lots of EIE males adopt thinking persona. They really really like systems, on top of that they are in their heads and their role wants to show everyday practicality.
IEI males are more in risk of being dandies. Si role, entirely subjective Ti and appreciation of power. Lol.
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They have Te role lol.
I experience them as feminine but I tend to like them for that. I dislike when they can’t use Se or Si smoothly or when they are too “big” or loud in presence or physically lol.. it cramps my style.
I agree with you that IEIs are much more likely to be dandies than EIEs but our Ti is not entirely subjective lol. It's two dimensional not one dimensional.... our Ti is logically objective enough. It seems subjective because it's our hidden agenda but it's not. Without that extra dimension, IEIs probably would just float away in space as fairy sprites. /shrug.IEI males are more in risk of being dandies. Si role, entirely subjective Ti and appreciation of power. Lol.
Role 2D Si is like me asking somebody if they want a cup of water, when I really want them to just homoerotically wrestle me down to the ground instead. But I feel its like the right thing to do or something, but yes it is very role-ish.